Are we friends or more?

Question

So I have this friend that I am very close with. We flirt with one another (according to some of my other friends). Usually end up calling each other baby when we are drinking and we are open to talk about anything with one another. This friend has no problem changing clothes in front of me, sits on my lap, dances on me, tells me I am look hot, and even stares at me now and then until I notice and ask why they are looking at me.

Normally I wouldn't even be questioning this, but the problem is this friend is a girl. So this confuses me. She has only had relationships with guys, drunkenly kissed a girl ONCE, and nothing more. She trust me completely and tells me everything. I am the only one she acts this way with. Does she actually like me or am I just thinking to much into this? Is she just wanting me to make the first move?

Answer 1

I think that since the two of you are so close and tell each other everything, then why wouldn't she tell you if she had any reason to think that she might be g*y? It sounds like she might just be one of those touchy/feely girls and is really flirtacious. I wouldn't ask her about it because if she doesn't like you like that, she may get offended. but if you are uncomfortable about the way she acts with you, then i would say go for it and ask her about it.  i know plenty of girls who hang all over each other -even when sober-and they are totally straight. i wouldn't worry too much about it.  

Answer 2

OMG. Are you dense? Reason she only does it with you is because she is attracted to you. Simple math. Id be on her like white on rice. just kiss her and you will move everything in a new direction. Good luck.

Answer 3

If she tells you everything, why doesn't she tell you whether she likes you that way or not... Ask her.

But it sounds more like she's just being "too friendly".

Answer 4

sounds like you've already figured it out. ;)

If I were her and I had feelings for you but was too shy to come forward, I would have acted the same way.

Answer 5

Ask her.

Answer 6

Do you want it to be more? If not, let it be, unless it bothers you. If you want more tell her.

Answer 7

She may just be an extremely flirtatious person, but if you really ant to know, the only way to find out is to ask.