Are we just friends with benefits or dating?

Question

I have been "hanging out" with a co-worker for about 3 months, met all of his friends, we see each other 2-3 times a week, usually movies, dinner, or watching tv at his house, or out with his friends. We've had s*x several times. He keeps saying he doesn't want to date anybody, he has to work on himself (he got dumped by his fiancee a year ago). We went away together this weekend. It feels like we're dating. We call each other every other day. See each other a couple times a week & have s*x. He doesn't hold my hand or touch me in public, but he's always getting the door, pulling out my chair, making sure I'm ok & letting me know when he is leaving me alone with his friends if only for a few minutes. Are we FWB or casually dating or dating?

Answer 1

hm well being a guy id say you two are FWB and thats just goin by the info youv stated above  he told you he didnt want to date and he dont touch you in public but he has s*x with you in private so i really think your FWB

Answer 2

i wouls have to say that u are dating but he is afraid to show the public that fact.

Answer 3

I think you are dating, but he doesn't want to fully come out and make it official.

Answer 4

sounds like friends with benefits. he would of said something if you were dating, to let you know it was more than friends with benefits. better yet, you should ask him where you guy's are in your relationship and see what he says.

Answer 5

Sorry, but I'd have to say friends with benefits... or the ever so awkward, "talking" stage. I guess it's all in the way he introduces you. That's how I always know. Does he say you're his girlfriend, his friend, or just your name. Why don't you just ASK him to be sure. If it turns out to be FWB sweetie walk away because it never works out. Someone always ends up getting hurt and it shouldn't be you. Best wishes.