Are we moving too fast?

Question

Well, my boyfriend and I were touching eachother's private parts. We had clothes on, and I'm 16 and he's 17. Is this moving too fast? We've been together for a month and we love eachother.

Answer 1

It's between you and your BF - none of us are in your relationship, only you can know if it's going too fast. Hey - Bella and Edward fell in love in Twilight, and they weren't together for ages! Lol.

Answer 2

Yes.

In a month you can't develop a "loving" relationship.

Answer 3

i think you are i mean only a month?? i think you should just relax i mean if you really love each other just take it slow and easy better to do it right then wrong!!

i mean kissing sure! holding hands sure!! and what not stuff like that but i guess if you feel 110 percent ready than go for it... it doesn't matter what we answer you hence you are probably going to go through with it!! b/c you love him

but i think it's way too fast!!

Answer 4

You think you love each other after a month?  Impossible.  Love takes a lot more time than that.  Yes..you are moving too fast.

Answer 5

NAH...ur fine

i know just what u mean...i did the same things...b***s...butt...d**k...balls...i... was all fine....but we ended up being 2gether for 2 years...so u never know how things will turn out!

Good Luck!

Have Fun...With Each Other!!!!!!

Kara<3

Answer 6

I think its too fast.

Answer 7

One month??

To me that is WAY to fast....

Answer 8

Your not in love if youve only been dating for a month but touching will lead to s*x trust me

Answer 9

You're not in love.  You're in lust.  It's hard to tell the difference, at your age.  Hormones are going wild, and you are confusing perfectly natural sexual responses with love.  Love develops over time, once you get to know someone, their likes, their dislikes, their dreams, their fears . . . a month is barely acquainted.

And, frankly, if you have to ask -- then yes, it's too fast.

Answer 10

How can you love someone in a month?

When you can answer that Q you know you are a wise grasshopper.

Answer 11

a month is kinda short to suddenly love each other. but, sometimes love just happens that fast. but, loving each other doesn't mean your ready to "touch each others private parts". yeah, you're in love. doesn't make you ready for anything else. You know? but, now-a-days, things happen pretty fast.

Answer 12

I've moved WAY faster than that before and I totally regret it. I lost my virginity to my husband (then boyfriend) on our 3rd date, and I still feel I should have waited (we are still happily married though, so the damage was small, but I still think things would have been better if I had waited). Touching each others privates with clothes on is the precursor to doing it without clothes. I would hold off on doing anything except kissing until you are ready.

Answer 13

i touched my boyfriends d**k after like a week.

but that was a mistake. haha didn't mean too.

he touched my b***s/butt before a month.

and i touched his butt and d**k with clothes on.

Answer 14

Dont make me crack up "Until I know I'm ready." What do you have in mind? Next month you'll be ready at 16! Are you prepared to be yet another pregnant teen in America? Hey you do as you please but remember "Safe s*x."

Answer 15

yes and u cant be in love after a month

Answer 16

Moving too fast isn't the word for it. Possible catastrophy is more like  it. You want to fool around? Did Mama teach you all you should know about fooling around , how and when to protect your self and all that good stuff? Who else has this 17 year old lad told the loves? Don't turn out to be an easy mark !! You have more to lose.

Answer 17

pffft dont listen to everyone else. Its ok what you guys are doing. Its not like your having s*x or anything.

Besides I know people that have s*x after one month

Answer 18

You so not in love.Just another high school crush*sigh*

But ewww, why are you guys touching each other after only a month ? that's just wrong dude......

Answer 19

A month? You can't be in love in just a month. Love takes time. You are going too fast.

Answer 20

you are definitely moving too fast. though you may not be planning to have s*x, fondling each other will eventually lead to that.

please slow down and use your energies in other areas. "Remember your Creator while you are in your youth" as the Bible says at Ecclesiastes 12:1.

Answer 21

After a month and at your age, yes. Especially since you don't want to have s*x. It is only a matter of time if you keep tempting him like this before both of you get impatient and want to move onto the next step, until you eventually end up having s*x. Also, being "in love" after 1 month as a teenager is pretty unlikely.

Answer 22

Well.... do not let other people decide if you are in love or not........ I wish you two the best of luck.... but honestly..... you had clothes on.... morally... yeah you are moving a little too fast.... but worldly... no there are 12 year old out there in the world sleeping around!!!