Are women (aged 18-24) who go to social gatherings full of low self esteem and no sence of logic?

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I have been to many clubs where the nice guy who may want a date or just to buy you a drink or maybe a dance gets denied. However if your the jerk who insults them and diseases that they can't drink a bottle of rum they'll go ahead and do it. They'll also do all the freaky things you say when you make it look like they can't do it or you would not want them to do it (only a 10 year old would not understand that). When you tell her she looks like a chicken or walks like a hippy and can't last 20 minutes (you know what I mean).

So anyway to get back at this social outrage I divised a plan, (at first it may seem mean or bad but really its help people get a brain). Instead of hooking up (or sleeping) with the girls I would go to there place and then at the last minute say nope. then you'd leave them some notes around the house insulting them (about there intelligence and lake of good judgment) and before you left you would make them feel bad (its really not that cruel).

In the end I hope

Answer 1

That sounds twisted and misogynistic. I don't know ANY women that are that stupid, and believe me, I go out a LOT. I'm going to a concert and then to a major Chicago nightclub this Friday with a bunch of female friends.

If some man told me "You can't possibly drink all that rum!" I'd probably say, "You're right," and pour it down his shirt.

If someone told me I was fat and couldn't dance, I'd kick his rearend from here to the moon (I served in the US Army so I could probably take anyone, up to maybe 6'5 and 230 pounds, and I know this from experience).

As for men in general, most of my female friends are lesbians or bisexual and are usually not out to find a guy but rather a woman. Frankly, mainly because we're afraid of men like yourself who can't pick a girl up at the bar, so they come up with a weird way to destroy women's self esteem and/or otherwise warp reality to justify why they can't pick a girl up.

I have never had a problem picking a woman up and I'm a woman myself. I've been married to a man for a few years now, but I dated women almost exclusively for years. I can assure you it's not that difficult and you do not need to insult anyone or be a jerk. You either have the wrong approach, come off as creepy, or you're targeting all the wrong girls. If you want the chick with the triple D implants and dread locks, odds are she has the self-esteem of a bulimic ten year old, so you need to aim higher, man.