Are women just jealous of "Players"?

Question

We all know a guy can go around having s*x with whoever he wants without having to worry about his reputation. In fact, he's often held in high regard among his peer "Whoa! you rock man! tell me your secret.."

But a woman can't go around having s*x with whoever she wants without being called a bunch of dirty names. Her reputation is tainted. Women who do that are treated with so much less respect by both genders, it's just "wrong" and "unlady like" for her to act in such a manner.

So with all this in mind, what are women so upset about? The fact that they can't behave in the same manner and sleep around without worries? Do they secretly WANT to act like men or better yet "players"? It would seem that some women criticize players out of envy because they can't join the club. Food for thought.

Answer 1

I personally have no issues with it.  

I  choose not to be promiscuous for a number of reasons which include emotional(attachment)  and physical (STD's) reasons.  Besides, for me s*x with a person who I care about is much more gratifying.

For those who feel otherwise, meh.... who am I to judge.

Answer 2

Why would I care that everytime a guy sticks his prick in a different women he increases his chances of getting an STD or getting a woman pregnant and ending up raising that child(at least financially) for 18 years.

Sounds like a grand time to me.

I completely envy the player lifestyle.

I personally loose respect for people who take s*x in such a cavalier manner.

Answer 3

Well...he does have to worry about his rep. Maybe, not with his low self-esteemed buddies but with women. We find it gross. These man whores can spread so many diseases. Your thinking it takes two. Well, what happens is a women will sleep with one guy and he will be sleepin with anything that walks.  It is such a turn off!

Unfortunately, that is changing too. Women are starting to lower themselves to men's low standards for morality. They are just sick of the double standard. And, they want to have fun with no strings. However, I still think more men are whores then women.

It's not that women are jealous it's just disturbing because most men have no respect for themselves.

YOu need to wake up ! women are becoming more like men....YUCK!

PS men are NOT more interested in s*x! They are just allowed by society to have a lot of it!  Women, if they do it(sleep around) they are are less obvious.

Men who think they are more interested in s*x then women are sexist and believe that "boys will be boys" BS that their grandpa's used to tell them.

Answer 4

Interesting though... and yet another way that men are looked upon differently than women.  But, I will give you a little inside note... men get called many different names that are not kind when they sleep around as well.  A man or a woman doing the same thing makes no difference... I think men just want to keep the "player" title exclusive.  Either way... this is a scummy way to go about life.  If you don't respect others... dont expect any in return!

Answer 5

Are you 12?  Very few think that anymore.  They either think the man is a w***e too or the woman is "empowered".  Get real and out of the 80's.

Answer 6

No I pity them.

All the players I know are in their mid 40's alone and they ended up in their moms basement because she's the only woman who can put up with him.

Now, is that something to be jealous of??

Answer 7

It's true, if men sleep around there's no problem, but if women sleep around they're called whores.

Answer 8

I think men try to champion a player as a good thing but its not.  A man who has to lie and trick a women into bed is not a stud.  s*x is not the ultimate achievement.  

I have known women and men that slept around and neither were ever truly happy.  People who know they are wrong often accuse the enlightened of being envious to protect their status quo.

If you go with the urban dictionary definition a player is just someone who manipulates another into thinking they care about them but only really want s*x.  I like that it continues to say "A certain class of low-rent, slack-jawed fuckups has decided that backstabbing and misogyny are totally radical, so the word is sometimes used as a compliment or term of endearment between male friends, as in the greeting "what's up, player?"." This is just funny... but you will probably say that a women wrote it right? Wrong!

Answer 9

Why would anyone be envious of that? I see more appeal in having as few long-term relationships as possible than in having a large number of cheap hook-ups. I see male players as fully-clothed whores.

Answer 10

If girls are jealous of players, then are guys jealous of female players? ;)  I just always assumed that when a guy was talking c**p about sexually active females.....he was either mad that he didn't get any from her or she was having more fun than him.  

Answer 11

That's a controversial topic. I know women get mad that men get praised while they get criticized for the same behavior. But it's a completely different ball game for men and women when it comes to getting s*x and sleeping around.

Men are clearly more interested in getting s*x than women, I don't care what anyone says. Personal experience and observation has made this crystal clear. So in all seriousness, most average women could sleep around with a hundred guys easily if she only wanted to- because there is no shortage of men that will be ready and willing. So there is no reason why women should be praised for sleeping around when it's something that any woman can easily accomplish.

Meanwhile, since women are typically so reluctant to want to have s*x, especially outside of being in a relationship.... it's hard for men to get laid. Men have to spend money and be really charming or really funny or really cool or something. And they have to put all this time and effort into really making a woman get turned on. So any man that manages to become a player really has accomplished a feat worthy of praise. Especially since almost all men WISH they could sleep around but they just can't manage to pull it off. That's why you even say in your question, "tell me your secret..."

So in a recap, it seems like most men want to sleep around but can't manage to do so and therefore the one's that can't look up in admiration to the ones that can. But women can all easily sleep around but they don't seem to even have the desire to do so anyways.

So if anyone's jealous of anything, I think average men are jealous of men who are players AND of women in general because players and women can all get s*x easily, which is what the average man wants but can't do.

I don't think women are jealous of players. I think they're just mad that people call them bad words. Because really, I guess there's no good reason to criticize women for sleeping around.

But there's also no good reason (from a man's point of view) to NOT praise a man who sleeps around.

Answer 12

d**n straight!