My boyfriend and I are considering getting married but I am having second thoughts because he is a total slob! He leaves his clothes all over the floor, leaves the toilet seat up and splashes pee everywhere, never makes the bed, and basically never cleans anything. I know better than to nag but when I explain to him why I would like him to help clean, he says that I am a neat freak and women are just biologically programmed to want to clean. In all fairness to him, he doesn't ask me to clean up after him, but I can't stand living in filth! (when I first moved in he had 1 inch of dust all over everything and said he last cleaned the floors 4 years ago!!). Anyway, he is a busy lawyer and we have talked about getting a maid, but that still will not solve some things like getting him to pick up his socks and underwear on a daily basis. I love him and want this to work but it is becoming a deal breaker for me. What should I do?
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