Are you 14 to 17 in highschool and pressured?

Question

does it annoy you when all guys want is to get laid and doesn't think twice bout it

Answer 1

It did annoy me when I was in high school. What annoyed me more was the girls that would give it to them.

Answer 2

im 20, but yea it always bothered me a lil and from what ive experienced so far, i dont think they will ever stop thinking about s*x!

Answer 3

so wat

Answer 4

ahahha yeah but i think its kind of funny.

Answer 5

You act as though guy are the only ones who are dishing out these "sexual" pressures... But I've experienced the reverse.. because if your a guy and you dont want to put out  most girls look at you like your not attracted to them and go find it somewhere else.

Answer 6

yes. i got pressured into doing git with a guy. i don't really regret it but i wish it would have turned out different. I'm 15

Answer 7

ugh yes! last year there was this stupid rumour that i was on the pill so guys assumed that i was easy and you can just imagine... i hated it! c'mon i mean i know it's "hormones" and stuff bu honestly we shouldn't have to live through this! and i dont get how they can just look past it like it was nothing... i was watching the tyra show and it was about s*x in schools and there was this one guy who had s*x with his gf in the school chapel and said that he wasnt sorry he had done it and that he doesn't think it's a big deal!? it irritates me beyond belief. but the thing i hate most is that some girls (not all of them) give in when they really aren't ready and they want to take it back later but they can't because of a momentary lapse of judgement. and its not just guys though... there was this one 13 year-old guy and he got a high five from a girl and she put a condom in his hand :s

Answer 8

Hiya! Well I just graduated high school but the pressures from it are still fresh in my mind. It really does SEEM like that's all guys want- maybe for some of them it's true, but for some guys who are too insecure with themselves will act like that's what they want- just to win the approval of other GUYS. They pressure each other, and girls, when they really feel pressured themselves. And you're right that sometimes- guys just don't think straight, especially since they are about 2 yrs behind girls on their maturity level AND their in a sea of hormones. So don't worry too much about it. The world really isn't like high school. And if you feel pressured by a guy and YOU honestly don't feel ready- say no. He may get frustrated and throw a hissy fit lol but in the end, you'll be glad you said no if u werent ready.

Answer 9

I'm 17 and in high school (senior)

I have a boyfriend, I met him my freshman year.  We were good friends up until I broke up with my other serious boyfriend sophomore year, and made out with the current guy.

We've been together a year and a half and I love him to death.  He is my best friend, and he has never, nor would he ever pressure me to have s*x.  I respect myself, so he respects me too.

I've made it clear to him that I will not be having s*x until I'm married.  He's cool with that.  

Remember: if a guy can't keep his urges in check for your sake, he's not the right guy for you.