Are you a teen mother?

Question

whats it like? i wanna know the whole story

Answer 1

I don't know this first hand, but I've seen enough on the news, Judge Judy, etc. to realize it sucks.

A teen mother is a baby having a baby.  It's a bad idea.  The teen is most likely a s**t loser polluting the word with stupid spawn which will recreate again (probably multiple times) further bringing down the gene pool.  Losers create more losers.

It's a bad idea because you do not have a healthy relationship to provide a partner in which you can raise the baby together.  You don't have the finanical means to support the high costs of child birth and child rearing.  You won't (or it will be very difficult) to increase your education level so you can get a higher paying job.  You are not mature enough to raise this baby.  You do not have enough life experience yet and understanding of the world.  Teenagers should still be enjoying their youth, not raising children and getting married.

DONT DO IT

Answer 2

I am a 17 year old mom. I have a beautiful 6 month old baby girl who I love with all my heart. I was an idiot when I got pregnant with her and I didn't know what I was losing. My own parents kicked me out of the house...now I am living with my boyfriend and his parents who are so understanding with me. My boyfriends mom got pregnant at the age of 16. So she understands what its like. They are more like my parents then my real parents were. I love them so much. My baby girls name is Jessalyn Rose. My boyfriend is sweet...I think ppl underestimate teen moms...my baby girl changed my life. I now know that I need to be more responsible,for my baby...and I need to be strong for the first time in my life...its allot of work it raise a life...and I wish I would have known this before,but thats life...you gotta learn from it.But me and my boyfriend are being home schooled on the internet so we can both get the education we need and take care of our baby all at once...its awesome. My boyfriend has a part time job and I don't...but I know we can make this work...together.

Answer 3

No.

I'm a teen.

Not a mother.

Answer 4

lol like how people anwser a question thats not ur question

im not a mom but i just found out ima be a dad

16

girlfriend is 15

Answer 5

yup im a teen mom

i got pregnant at almost 15, had him at 15

im still with his daddy, and were 19 now

it was really hard, because adults were extreamly rude to me, telling me that i wasnt fit to be a mother, and that shane [my son] shouldnt be around me. i just ignored them and things have pretty much turned out ok. i love my son, and i wouldnt trade him for the world, but i just wish i had waited until i was older and financially able to have a child.

Answer 6

I will be one in one month.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years.

We have lived together for one and just resently 4 months ago  got our own place. It was not planned(of course) and i am very scared. My boyfriend works as a call rep right now at 10.00 an hour. Money is tight but we get through. I just tld my mom a month ago, cause she lives in another town. She was mad at first but then realized that i am not asking her for any money or anything and finally came around. School gives 6 weeks of maternity leave and pays for daycare, I am excited to meet her, 6 weeks left.

Answer 7

i was 19 when i got pregnant. i finished high school and had a full time job taking a year off until i go back to college. so it was a unexpected but a blessing. i had to quit cause i couldnt take the smell of expresso anymore. and i will admit i am probably missing out on a lot of freedom but i am happy that my son s father married me. and we have our own lil family now. i paln to go to school next spring still! by the way my mom was pissed at first but now shes spoiling her first grandson  

Answer 8

Pregnant at 20: baby at 20. Not officially a teen Mom but I was treated in the same way for a while. I set out to be the best, most responsible mother I could be from the moment I found out I was pregnant. It wasn't planned, more of a happy accident! Luckily my relationship with the baby's father was strong enough to begin with and we made it work even harder for our daughter.

I was pretty daunted at first: especially when breaking the news to my parents and of course, my boyfriend's Mom. Something about telling her was worse than telling my own Mom! After a while - they were thrilled and couldn't wait to be grandparents but I know my Mom thought I'd wait longer before starting a family, especially as I was halfway through my University degree at the time.

I don't regret it for a second, any of it! Pregnancy and being a Mother has taught me to respect and value life so much more. I don't have the time or money to be out with my friends as much as I used to. I was a 'party-girl' out every weekend but my daughter taught me there's more to life and I had to live up to the title of "Mom".

The bottom line: everybody's different and different people handle their situations in different ways.

Answer 9

I'm seventeen and going to be a mom in Dec. :]

I'm currently still in school finishing out my senior year

and I'm still with the dad.

i definitely dont know what i would do if my mom wasnt there to help me.

Answer 10

Yes I am, and proud!

Well I'm not having one, its a miracle to have THREE!

I don't think it's a mistake to be a teen mommy,

I love it,

I have supportive parents and friends and fiance.

Best part is buying little baby clothes :]  

Answer 11

Nope. Virgin, d**n proud of it.

Answer 12

Nope. Teenage pregnancy is the reason why alot of single parents on are wellfare, and it is a problem among America.

In some school districts across our nation (including my own) the School Board is paid more to teach high schoolers about abstinence, rather than using protection and other habits to keep minors from getting pregnant. I, personally, think that abstinence shouldn't be forced in to teenager's minds (in fact, abstinence is looked at as a religious belief) and that what should be put in to our youth's minds is what to do to stay protected and what to do if a woman does get pregnant.

Yet, if some youth want to go for abstinence, then they should - it really is the best way. But teenager's don't only need to learn about not having s*x at all. They also need to know about what to do if they do decide to have s*x before they are married and what the appropriate actions would be if a woman got pregnant.

Answer 13

Nope. 18 yrs old and still loving not being a teen mom. I am far too young to have a child, because in some terms I am still a child myself. I wont have any children until I get married.

Answer 14

Im a teen mom!!

I got pregnant at 13 and had him at 14

me and the dad have been together for 1 year and 9 months

it was hard and i wish that i would have waited but i love my little boy with all of my heart

my mom was understanding because she had my brother when she was 16

i still live at home with my mom but my boyfriend is looking for a house so that we can move in together

Answer 15

No. When I was a teenager I kept my legs shut. Then when I decided to lose my virginity I used a condom AND got birth control.

Answer 16

No, I'm not. My best friend has a daughter though. We're going on 17.

When my friend was 11 she got started dating this guy who was 1 year older than us. They were so close, and really in teenlove. Anwyay, she fell pregnant at 15. He was great, he stodd by her and got a job to help her out. It seemed like things were going to go really well, and some good could come out of the situation. Then, when he was riding his bike home from school he got hit by a car and died. It's so sad. He was a great guy, I really think they would've been together forever had that drunk driver not knocked him off. Anyway, she battled on and had the baby. She's called Bryonie after her dad, Bryon. My friend does a wonderful job of raising her, I'm like a second mother to Bryony. Yes, she was a mistake, but I think she is the silver lining on tthis horribly black cloud.

You've got me all teary now!  

Answer 17

Heck no! I don't plan on having kids until i get out of college and start a professional career.  

Answer 18

Yea im 19 and i have 3 kids

i had my first daughter Ava when i was 15 it was extreamly hard but my boyfriend and I managed to get through it happily

i just had our twins 3 weeks ago Caleb & Taylor

this time we arn't as tight on money and have our own place to live

but having 3 kids when your only 19 is tough but i woulden't trade it for the world

Answer 19

Im a teen mother. My baby is due in Nov. so far I've had a ruff time with pregnancy don't get me wrong its an amazing experience but I've gone through alot I shouldn't go through until I'm older. I've had unexpected hospital stays and worries of premature birth. Its all scary to take on. I'm excited to bring my little girl into this world though. And i wouldn't change anything. I wish it would have happened later on but it didnt and ill make it just fine. Its a different road then most teenagers take.

Answer 20

I'm a teen father.

I'm fifteen years old with a 1 year old daughter, Rachel.

To sum it up, her mom left me after a couple months, and here we are.

Best mistake I ever made.