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Are you an EMPATH, if so then answer this for 10 "easy" points ?

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Hello if you are new to this story, then see if you can get this

question right. Here you are a college girl, you just broke up

with your boyfriend. You find a new guy, and you come to find

out that he is abusive. This woman, who is my ex, is in a

serious bind. She met this man, and he moved in with her

30 days later. Then he gets real. He checks her emails, and

her cell phone numbers, to see who she calls. She can't go

anywhere too far, and has to be home most of the time. It is so

bad that she got into a deep depression, and even started smoking again. She called me while they were in a fight, and

then the phone hung up. And she was gone. I have not heard

from her since, and she is NOT on YAHOO ANSWERS anymore. Last time that happened was June 25, 2008. So she is on lockdown, and is afraid. What do you think is going

on in her mind right this minute, and how does she feel about

her situation ?

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  1. There are no such things as empaths, all you can do is offer her support when she contacts you or call her family, friends or the police if you believe that something that bad is going down.


  2. She needs help, but she won't take it.  Not yet at least.  She's afraid of him and still drawn to him and feels guilty b/c she knows she should be stronger and not want to be with him anymore.  Lots of guilt.  Like she doesn't deserve to be helped b/c she got herself in the situation and hasn't gotten herself out even though she knows she should.  She's had chances to leave that she hasn't taken, the chances are disappearing and she's scared.

  3. she is very sacred deep inside and she thanks he loves her when he is just bran washing her you have to get her out of their before she gets prego i fill some what of what she dus it is like a big heavy wight on my hart she is so sacred and dus not know what to do she loves him but at the same time is scared of hI'm i maybe only 14 but im a indigo and i think you need to call the cops plz do it soon now i have opened my self up to her fillings I'm having trouble closing she needs help get her out plz do something NOW

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    You need to get the cops involved, number 1.

    Number 2, she's thinking about music. She wants to hear it again.

  5. emapath=fake. DUH!!!

    and get some reallll help !!

  6. When i read your story i got chills all over. Find a friend of hers who isn't male (as I'm positive an abusive, jealous boyfriend has eliminated contact with all male acquaintances, and most females too), or maybe a sister or other family member if you're on good terms, and have that friend check on her. I don't believe this situation will end well and needs intervention.... just remember it may not be from you. You are at risk if you go into this with your "guns drawn" so to speak.

  7. Some men just abuse women because it makes them feel bigger.  I had an ex (my daughter's sperm donor) that yanked me and my child down a flight of stairs.  Now my daughter (20) is again in an abusive relationship.

    Good Luck!

  8. i really dont think i am a empath but....>>> she is scared,angry and looking for a way out...oddly in a way she has feeling for this man and wishes they would go away!!and if someone doesnt help her she will go crazy or worse kill herself!!..

  9. She's got to be scared out of her mind....I'm just hoping she's still alive.....

    If you can get word to her, tell her to contact her local Women in Crisis shelter - IMMEDIATELY!

  10. i am just 13, but i got a majer shockwave. all i got was dark room, shes crouched up,  crying, big man. shes hiding in a closet. i think u should help.

  11. I'm not an empath but I would imagine that she would be feeling desperately hopeless in that situation. Hopefully her spirits aren't completely broken and she is contemplating a way to get out of that situtation.  I would be absolutely terrified if I were her.  I wish her the very best of luck.  Hopefully you will be there to help her through the aftermath of it all.

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