Are you an EMPATH, if so then see if you can answer this for 10 points ?

Question

Ahh, and empath. I have a friend who is involved in an abusive relationship with a man. She has only known him for

about 2 months now. They have been living together since

the first week in June. Fast right ? I know. In between that

time, this woman has tried to contact me on numerous occasions. Until she was caught, and got in a fight with her

new man. It was chaos. He checked her emails, and cell

phone messages, too. She was like a slave. It was so bad,

she even started smoking again, and is highly depressed.

What do you think ? Oh, she is my exgirlfriend by the way.

Can you tell me about how this woman is feeling about the

situation she is in, and what is going on in her mind about

who she is ?

Answer 1

She is looking for you to rescue her. What you have to remember is that her current situation, as  sad as it is, is ultimately a matter of choice. Should you continue to intervene, expect lots and lots of drama. Until she learns to love and value herself, she will continue this cycle. Let me guess....you treated her well. Unfortunately, she does not feel that she is deserving. She actively sabotages her good relationships. What is going on in her mind/subconscious: She is a victim who has given away her power. Send her positive energies, but realize that it is not your role to "save" her. She has to do that herself. It feels like she will have to hit rock bottom before any changes are made. Unfortunately, that seems to be the case for many in that situation. I would not advise you to get reeled back in. This is her lesson to learn, and enabling her behaviors serves no one. Sorry to sound so harsh, but that's what I get.

Answer 2

there could be alot of contributing factors to how she is feeling.  Its possible that she is scared of what he might do if she leaves. (What he might physically do to  her).  Another reason is maybe she is afraid of being alone.  And lastly, maybe she's afraid to loose all the physical things like a place to live, freedom from parents etc.  (but on that last note I dont know what kinda life she had before or what kinda family she was raised in so please dont mistaken me for judging her)  Speaking from expirence, if she is truly unhappy in the situation she needs to get out.  This will likely lead to depression as it did in my case.  This can be a scary situation to be in.

And for your question to what she is feeling I can't say.  Its hard to read someone's emotions with out them being with me physically

Answer 3

She is feeling like the world is about to end for her.She is now realizing that she Jumped before she looked and now is afraid to take the steps needed to remove her self from the situation.When men are jealous and overbearing they will intimidate you until you have no will of your own and sometimes they will control by making you fearful of what they will do.They can be physically abusive or mentally abusive both are bad but the physical can lead to your ex girlfriends life being taken if she doesn't get away right now.If she has confided in you then you need to be there for her and support her to help get her away from him before it is too late.I hope this has helped you to some degree.

Answer 4

You'll never give up...

Answer 5

you should already have some idea since she was your ex

Answer 6

I'm not an empath but  i had a similar experience to your ex.

This guy sounds like a control freak,ha

he may feel threatened by your prior relationship with your ex,you don't say if its just you he has a problem with or whether he has a problem with other  friends of hers,if this is the case then he starting to isolate her ,any depression felt will most likely increase.

She may have initially blamed herself,but she shouldn't this guy is being unreasonable,you and she are just friends life has moved on for both of you and they have only been seeing each other for 2months.moved in together after a week,she feeling overwhelmed by how quickly everything has happened and probably doesn't know how to get her self out of the situation she is in.Blaming herself is the reason she is still seeing this guy,