Are you an EMPATH, or INTUITIVE person, if so then can you answer this for 10 points ?

Question

Hello. You may already know the story. My friend is involved in an abusive relationship with a man. They are 2 totally different people.

She has a light soul, and he has a very dark one. She is a Gemini,

and I am a Sagittarius. Anyway, I keep having these dreams about

her calling out to me. On the phone, and sometimes she is just calling

my name. This happened everyday last week. They were vivid dreams. Extremely vivid. I know that she is emotional right now. I

wrote her 3 emails on this week, and I was wondering if any of you

people, know that she has read them. Her boyfriend, does check

her emails, and cell phone messages. Maybe he still does. I have

not spoken to her since June 25th 2008. After they had a big fight, she

called me that night, and said she was NOT ok. Then the next day, she told me she could not talk to me anymore. I left it alone. But recently, I have been back in the picture. Did she read my emails, do

you see her in front of a computer screen ? How did she feel ?

Answer 1

Hi, I am an empath, but I can't feel what others are feeling unless it is in REAL LIFE. Horoscopes don't have anything to do with it by the way.

That isn't what empaths are really like. I need to be with you in real life and sense the energies surrounding you.

& by the way... you should be DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT instead of just sitting here asking for empaths when you don't know what one really is.

Abuse is really serious by the way, you should be reporting it to the police.

Answer 2

i don't feel right I felt overwhelmed and broke out in tears I feel that she needs help. the person you sead had a dark sole is a controlling person and she cant get out of it because of a thret or a feeling from these person. you have to help some how but dont come right out and confront them it may cas a grater thret find out some stuff about the man and keep seanding email but dont ask if he is controlling because I seans the man is useing the email as a way of finding out if shes trying to get help. i dont think she is reading the email I think the man is and deleteing them befor she sees them try to get her to make a new email with out the mans knowing about.

Answer 3

Personally, I would walk right to her front door and find out what's going on in person. Based on what you find out, interfere in what ever way you need to if you find she is in danger.

Answer 4

Totally agreed with Starfall.

Dude, many many people have offered you suggestions and good advice.  Are you going to do anything with it?  If not, then please spare us these repeated postings.  You are wasting people's time who are honestly trying to help you and your friend.

If you really insist on getting some sort of psychic answers, then I suggest you get yourself to an actual psychic.  You are likely to find local psychics willing to give readings (for a small fee - like $20 for their 1/2 hr of time) through a local pagan/metaphysical shop.  You can find such shops in your area at this link, just click on your state for listings.

http://www.witchvox.com/vn/vn_index/xsho...

To add, not that you care, but I found myself trapped in an abusive relationship about 8 years ago - I got totally brainwashed by this control freak - it started as mental abuse and then turned physical.  My friends interfered and helped me deal with the authorities, the legal issues, and helped me to get away from the guy for good.  I am thankful for what they did to help me get out and pick up the pieces after.  If they had just sat around discussing my "situation" online with a bunch of strangers, I probably wouldn't be here today.  I'm glad my friends cared more than that!

Seriously - DO SOMETHING REAL TO HELP!!!  Or live with the consequences and your guilty conscious for not taking action.

Edited:  I find it rather amusing that you are telling me what the adult thing to do is.  

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

I've made numerous attempts to offer you real advice and help, as have others - but hey, if you really don't want it - then why keep posting here?

Answer 5

Call it intuition if you like, my job demands intuition! You're missing your friend a lot. You're worrying about her to the degree that it's reflected in your dreams. Of course, she's read your emails. Human nature couldn't resist seeing what you'd written. She'll think about you as much as you about her. You know she won't leave the guy until she's ready. Until then she'll blow hot and cold. You'd feel better if you find someone else to care about and distance yourself slightly. Stop reading the horoscopes because they are not helping you or telling you anything useful. Easier said than done, but...pull away from this problem a little bit more.

Answer 6

I am empathetic to someone being abused. The abuser uses control and isolation as a tool so the person they are abusing are completely and totally dependant on them. Im no psychic but I was in an abusive relationship and you need to know that abuse always escalates. You need to try to contact this person but do it in a way that the abuser does not know. Do you have a mutual female friend?? You need to try to help this person before they come to physical harm. Peace.

Answer 7

She is being controlled and she seeks freedom but you are to afraid to confront this guy and remover her from this abusive relationship... All that you have to do is tell her to come with you and she would ... You were her hope and salvation and you failed her... Because of your fears...... So all you have to do is catch her alone and remove her but I believe that she is now with child...  and that would take a real man to deal with that..............

Answer 8

i am not sure that if you are ever going to understand what i am going to talk about...

if she's not talking to you, or replying your email or whatsoever, then you gotta move on. it's that simple.

she's a human, not a toy or animal. she can make choices, even if she's a weak person or whatever, she still make choices.

Answer 9

This is the 15th time (literally) in the past three months you have asked this question.  Are you just looking for free psychic readings, or are you conducting some kind of experiment, and we the people of YA, in many different catagories, your free lab rats, or do you need professional help?

Answer 10

Maybe she is getting the messages...she may be scared of responding...seeing as to how he checks her messages..

or maybe he deactivated her mail account!

so i feel like maybe you should make an unannounced stop by her house and just drop in...if you know where she lives.

everything will be ok...

Answer 11

You met her on the internet, have never been with her in person.  She goes to college.  She lives somewhere in the midwest.  She married this guy.  She deletes your e-mails without reading them.  If you persist, her husband, being a powerful bokor will put a curse on you, and you will flunk Psychology 101.

Answer 12

im sorry to be the one to have to tell you this, but she's been taking you for a fool. Now she has a new fool .

Wrong of you to fall for a girl in a relationship. No matter what the case maybe. But thats just how you are .

Answer 13

You need to call her. You need to speak to her. The emails are NOT getting through. Call her and make sure she is OK. I think she needs your help.

Answer 14

I am an empath. It is correct that we can't read a persons emontions unless we have meet them befor and created a bond, or unless the person is in the same room as us. But what I can tell you about abusers, all they want is control, so they pick on people they know they can control. I have meet a few and this is what I have read from them, they insecure about themselfs, they pick on people weaker then them selfs to bost their ego. They will do anything to stay in complet control of another persons life because they can't control their own.

Our deams are completely linked to our feelings and life. Our brains tell us stuff we don't really know or are not sure of though dreams, sounds weird but true. But if you are a telepath or she is one, she could be sending you messages that she needs you to help. All she needs is someone to show her she can do better, desirves better and that she is in control. You could be that person, with out the use of email, try face to face talking.

Answer 15

Okay, I'm going to tell you the same thing someone else told you the last time you posted THIS SAME QUESTION: If you really cared about this girl you'd actually get out and do something about the situation instead of repeatedly posting the same story on Y!A.  Even if someone on here is a legitimate empath or intuitive, it does no good unless you are actually willing to do something about the situation, if the situation is even real.

Answer 16

I can imagine her sitting at her computer, seeing your email address and deleting your emails before she read them so she doesn't get in trouble with her dark, abusive partner.

You should talk to him and explain that she's your friend and you're worried that she's depressed or something, maybe then, seeing her in person would be less hassle.

I've been in this situation before, so trust me and try it. Remember to look him in the eye with no malice, only concern. When you do see her face to face, try for a v.long conversation and tell her that controlling boyfriends usually turn into very violent ones and if she doesn't want to end up paralyzed or something, she needs to leave him.

Answer 17

You  are in love with her

and her feelings are confused.