Are you an EMPATH, or an INTUITIVE person, if so can you answer this for 10 points ?

Question

Hold on. I know what you are thinking. Just a second. Now as some of you may know, my friend is involved in a bad situation. She is in an

abusive relationship. She met a man, and he moved in with her after

only 30 days. He is evil, a dark soul so I have been told. Things took

a turn for the worse. He started checking her emails, and cell phone

messages, too. She became depressed, and even started smoking again. Stress, ,anxiety it is there. Now I have decided to contact the

police. And I will call her and check on her to see if everything is fine,

just in case. I need to know what is she feeling right now about her

problems with this guy ? And is it "safe" for me to call her while all of

this is going on ? Will she be safe ?

Answer 1

The police can't do anything unless he's hitting her or is a threat to her safety and well being. If you two are really so close, why don't you help her pack her stuff when he's gone and she can move in with you.

Answer 2

you don't need to be an empath to figure out this situation. most of it is plain ol' psychology. the safety of your friend won't be gauranteed until she gets rid of this guy. sick thing is... she might not want to. this guy might have her thinking that she's not good enough to find better than him, that she'll never get away from him, or that he'll hunt her down if she trys. guys like that are very controlling and psychologically minimulative. it only took him 30 days to talk her into moving in? wow. the police can make this worse... he might think that she called them, no matter what she says, and turn on her.

keep in touch with her, as safely and discreetly as possible. it would be easier to show up at her house when he's gone, her job, or when you know she'll be shopping. let her know that you're worried and will be there for her in anyway she needs you. ask her how you can stay a part of her life with this guy looking over her shoulder all the time.

do some google searching for battered women shelters, and outreach clinic phone numbers. they might be able to give you some tips and you should be able to find a forum easily.

Answer 3

you really should get into social work.

Answer 4

stop having an affair with her!!!

i can sense it, im not even an empath

Answer 5

He is manipulating her. If you call the police you will create a villain of yourself. You need to change your thinking. You need to find a way of talking with her alone, maybe lunch. Take on the air of wanting to check on her and find out what she thinks --when he is not there to influence her--

Don't share your concerns yet, just get the facts.

Then if it is as bad as you fear -- it will likely be worse -- stage an intervention with family and friends.