Are you an EMPATH or INTUITIVE person, if so can you answer this for 10 easy points ?

Question

Well, it is more to this story. In case you don't know by now. All is

fair at the moment. But my friend is still in this abusive relationship

with this man. He is from Africa. And is an international student here

in the US. He is a little older than her as well. She is 25. Anyway,

he moved in with her after only 30 days. Things got worse. He started

checking her emails, and cell phone messages, too. Then he told her

that she could not be friends with me ever again, nor could she talk to

me either. So she is afraid for her life. I understand that this man may

also be into crafts, and voodoo. He may be using it to control her mind, or manipulate her. But she is giving him too much power. What

do you see going on here, or what do you feel ? And is she planning a

way to escape this man ?

Answer 1

Your fixation on this problem is only feeding negative energy into the situation and making things worse for her. Your friend is not a victim of voodoo, but of her own free will choices. There is nothing you can do to help her until she is ready to make a change.

Has she actually told you that she is in fear for her life, or are you making an assumption? If she has, then call the cops. If she hasn't, then let her know that you are always there if she needs you, but otherwise respect her wishes and let her live her life. It is *her life and *her choice.

We all have choices to make and lessons to learn... including *you. Perhaps you need to take a look at what lessons *you need to learn from this situation as *you seem to be becoming unhealthily obsessed, as evidenced by your many, many, many daily posted questions here on the subject.

Want to help her? Light a candle for your friend and visualize her being happy. Truly happy. Without *your personal ideas of what will make her happy interfering in it all.

Answer 2

Yawn.

Answer 3

it sounds like he is on a student visa.

i would suggest she get out of there NOW.

this could turn very nasty.

you might want to check with I.N.S. on his current status.

from what you describe caution is very much called for.

Answer 4

If what you are saying is true your friend is in need of serious help. She needs to pray and ask Jesus Christ to protect her from all harm and danger. Then she needs to pray asking Jesus Christ to remove and break every single tie that her boyfriend has over her. Then she needs to get rid of any item he might have given her (because he might be using them to help him control her). Then she needs to go to a pastor and ask him for help and advice about the situation. She also needs to ask the pastor if he and a group of intercessors could pray for her.

Answer 5

Let her know your there to help her.  If she doesn't accept, let her be.  

Answer 6

You may if you have actually seen wounds want to inform police does she live on campus or campus housing find the authorities there abuser get worse not better and often end up murders as well

Either way she needs help before it is to late

Odds are police will tell you nothing you can do but they can point you to groups ect. that will help.

Also look up battered women sydrome and find someone to e-mail it for you do not anger by sending it your name a proffesser maybe?

You are a catalist right now so stand down but get others like family involved.

Caring is not bad but if unwelcome could backfire

Answer 7

I have no idea why that Christianos dude even hangs around this topic in yahoo answers if he doesn't believe in any of it. He just trolls around and leaves stupid remarks. ANNOYING

Answer 8

I'm reminded of a South Park character, Mr Garrison. The internet isn't the equivalent of Mr Hand.

I'm beginning to think that you have an unhealthy interest in this woman. It may be better for you both to part company for a while. She can get in touch with you when she is ready to. She can leave this guy when she wants to. By projecting the voodoo thing on the situation, you are revealing too much of yourself. I can imagine this woman would appreciate some space from both you and the man.

Answer 9

Does this girl belong to a gym?  See if they have martial arts classes there.  It brings confidence way up and helps put the world in perspective.  This girl needs to stand up for herself, and take charge of her life.  It's her home and she is the one with the power, she just doesn't see it.