Are you an EMPATH or INTUITIVE person, then see if you can answer this for 10 points ?

Question

Hello. If you don't know the story. Then here it is. My friend is in a state

of turmoil. She is into mysticism and folklore and things like that too.

She is involved in an abusive relationship. She met a guy, and he moved in with her after only 30 days. Things got worse. He put some

sort of spell on her, and has control of her mind. She wanted to tell

me earlier but cut me off, and did not talk about him. She is now very

depressed, and even started smoking again. They have been together

only 2 months. After she had an altercation with this man one night, she told me later the next day, that we could not talk anymore ever.

That was on June 25th, I have not heard from her since. This is critical,

and she is in pain. Is she aware of what is being done to her on a

spiritual plain ? What is she thinking, and how is she feeling about

her situation today, right now ?

Answer 1

He must have voo-dood her (several times, I'm guessing).

Answer 2

We have talked of this before.  I was wondering about you.  All you can do at this point is pray for her and ask the Mother to give her the strength to escape.  She is going to have to find the strength within her to escape this man.  

When you do this light a candle for her.  White and I think if you repeat this ritual every night for her she will find her inner Goddess and stregth.  Place the candle in the direction she is in, whether that be north, south, east, or west.  Email me and we can discuss it deaper and I will help you with the ritual.

Answer 3

call the police...now nobody has that power well not enogh to get to you...rescue her from her demise buttmunch dont talk abut it here!!!

go now and save her!!!

dont trip that dude wont hurt you...when you get her then take her to a phyicic  (sorry for the spelling) and have her treated dont take her to a doctor they would only give her pills the bad ones!!!

good luck and dont be afraid!!!

Answer 4

               I'm a true believer of the "Allah"

           Please ,Please , Please pray for her and use this "suraah" to              

                             remove any bad omen

First say this

"Lahilaha illallahu  Muhammedir rasoolillahi"

Then in your mind pray for her and believe madly in the one and only true god and say this

" Allahu lahilaha illahuva al haiyul kaiyum la thouhudhuhu seenathoun

valaa noum,lahu maa fishamavathi vamaa phil arl,manzalazi yeshfahu

indhahu illah bee yeezinihi  yehlamu maabaiyina aidheehim vamaa halfahum  valaah yuheethuna bisheiyin minyimihi illah bimaashaha vashiya kurshiyuhus samavaathi val arlza, vala yuheethuhu ifzuhuma vahuval aleeyul azeem."

* Have true  faith in god and say this and if possible send this to her and make her say this with true faith"

" Allah will really hear your problems and cure her and i will also offer my prayers for her"

Answer 5

Part of the way a person in abusive relationship is controled is the inflicting the abuse will make their victim cut off all ties, and will not allow that person to have friends, and a life, so that they rely solely in their abusier.

There is not a lot that you can do unless you KNOW that he is physically hitting her then you can get the police involved.

Answer 6

I personally don't believe on those voodoo mystic stuffs. I think there's something wrong with your friends mental well-being and needs professional help. She is so naive and gullible that can easily taken advantage of, abusive relationships might have put her priorities screwed up and as a friend you should empower your friend to take a step to stand for herself and not entertain this voodoo stuffs. Tell her it doesn't exist that what this unworthy predator kinda guy is not worth her time and love. Or set her up with a date to take her mind off this stuff. A good distraction might help her to cope with her current state of mind & well-being.

Answer 7

To answer your questions directly....

Does she know what's being done to her?  Yes and no....  She knows she's not happy and she knows he is part of the reason.  However, she does not see it clearly enough to see what the cause of her pain is.  (And it isn't just him.)  The no is because she has hypnotized herself into believing this guy is her only path to happiness.  

What is she thinking and feeling right now?  She's trying to figure out how to be happy and is deluding herself that this guy will bring her happiness.  She's is feeling desparate and lonely.  Desparate in that she's willing to do whatever this man demands to gain his "affection".  Lonely because I'm willing to bet you aren't the only person from her old life she has been cut off from and because he only offers her love on his terms.  Only as a reward for doing as he wishes.

How strong is his power?  Only as strong as she allows it to be.  And it would appear she has given him a lot of power.  

However, your most pressing question....  "What can I do to help her now?"  Not much, my friend.  Until she has decided that she wants something else, she will stay with this man and this abusive relationship.  You can let her know you are around, ready to offer her a helping hand when she's ready.  But any more than that and you only add to the drama.

The thing to keep in mind....  The more you push to intervene, the more you put pressure on her to choose you or him.  And, depending on what illusion she has cast upon herself, you may lose her for good in that contest.

Answer 8

It sounds like your friend has a very low opinion of herself and that that is the real problem causing her to put up with an abusive man in her life and home.  While it may be possible that he is practicing some sort of mystical mind control on her, the reality is more likely that he simply has a dominating personality and she has a weak one.  

Assuming both of these individuals are of legal age, there really is not much you can do.  She has to be the one to take action to get this guy out of her life. Women often feel trapped in situations like this, fearing that the man may harm them if the try to get away. They also sometimes seem to have some notion that his actions are somehow justified.  I'm not a psychologist, so I really can't explain it.  

If I were you, I would try to locate some womens' shelters in the area and get this information to her (without letting him know of course). If she sees there is a way out, she *might* take it. You might want to visit one of these shelters yourself and explain the situation to the staff there.  They will have plenty of experience with this sort of thing and will be able to give you much better advice than you're likely to receive here on Yahoo Answers.

Lastly, if you believe she is being physically harmed by the man, you might consider informing the police. The risk here is that if the police get involved and she does not leave him at that moment (or they don't remove him permanantly), he is likely to assume she got them involved and take it out on her.  This is a tough situation.  If you belive in prayer, then pray to give your friend the strength she needs to help herself. Good luck to you both.