Are you an INSIGHTFUL or INTUITIVE SOCIOLOGIST, if so answer this for 10 points ?

Question

Uh ha. I found out the truth today, about my friend. Let me explain.

Social life. Not good. My friend met a guy, and let him move in after

only 30 days. Things got worse. He started checking her emails, and

cell phone messages. Then she could not talk to me anymore she

said. This was on June 25th, it was like she was being held hostage.

And she seemed afraid for her life earlier before that. The man she is

with is from Africa. He may be trying to get a green card. They attend

the same university as well. I smell a rat here you guys. What do

you think ? What is she feeling right now about her situation ?

Answer 1

Maybe your friend wants you to butt-out, ever consider that. As for what's going on in HER head. Only SHE knows. Anyone commenting on HER head has no idea what IS going on in HER head, the're only guessing.  Ask HER if you want an answer!!!

Answer 2

  Mr. Dove I am glad that you are looking out of her so much and Bamboo...are you insane? It seems that your friend is suffering from undiagnosed Stockholm Syndrome since she will not leave him even though she knows she is being held hostage. The things he is doing are totally unacceptable to do to a women and he may be trying to get a green card. I suggest you alert campus police, the university itself, and the city police about the situation. Help them arrange a time where he will not be there to get her out, even if she does not consent to this, it is for her own good. Afterward let her stay with you for the time being while the police can handle the situation and see if the man is a genuine threat and get her view of the situation. It seems like he is a over possessive, possible stalker that may even give her harm  if he stays with her longer. Hope this helped, Good Luck, God Bless, and Have a Good Day.

Answer 3

I think she is uncertain, but I also think he is possessive. He was brutal at first due to his jealousy over you but now he is being reasonably nice. They have horrible quarrel's but she tells herself that she instigated and that she owes him and feels sorry for him, so she sticks with him feeling like they might just be under too much pressure and things will get better when they are doing better financially.  

Answer 4

stop posting this, and do something constructive to find out where she is, and if she needs help or support. A psychic isnt going to help you, growing a spine and doing something about it will

*rubs crystal ball* I can see you doing nothing but posting this yet again

Thatll be 50 bucks thanx :P

Answer 5

she thinks that she made a horrible mistake but doesn't know how to undo it. help her.

Answer 6

If you are in a university managed property, get your friend to report the incidents to the university. AFTER he is kicked out! I would not let a man who is acting like this stay in my house because you never know what his limits are...it could be a misunderstanding...maybe he is socially awkward but you never know. For your friend's safety i would tell her to take action.

He is clearly a bit dodgy and to be honest living with somebody who worries you is not a good idea in general...You need to be comfortable with who you live with and the incidents you describe would actually scare me which is justifiable to kick somebody out.