Are you an INTUITIVE or INSIGHTFUL person, if so can you answer this for 10 points ?

Question

Hello world. Update here on my friend. I did what I was supposed to

do. I told the police about her situation. But she refused help. I think

she may have tried to cover up what is going on with her and her

boyfriend. She met him, and he moved in after only 30 days. Things

got worse. He started checking her emails, and cell phone numbers,

too. She became very depressed, and started smoking again. Then

she was told that she could not be friends with me anymore. After

an altercation with her man. This was on June 25th. I have not heard

from her ever since. And she is not on Yahoo Answers either.

She is in a state of crisis. What do you see going on here ? The man

is from Africa. They go to the same university. He has her on lockdown. What do you think is going on in her mind today, right now ?

Answer 1

http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt...

I'll be glad to meet with you in "private" to discuss the problem. Just let me know when. I'll do the traveling. Whether you are in Mexico City, Perth, Chicago, or Amsterdam makes no difference. LOL!  

Answer 2

She's not happy.  She's stuck and doesn't know how to get out, and more so, doesn't have the strength to get out.

Abused women stay in relationships with their abusers because they've come to believe it's their fault when the abuser gets mad.  They start to believe the abuser is the smarter one who is right, so they must listen to them.

You need go get in touch with her somehow.  Go there when he's not around, hide a note somewhere she'd find it, etc.  You need to let her know that you and everyone else who cares about her wants her to get out of this relationship now.  She needs to know she has the strength and support to do it and it will destroy her if she doesn't leave. She needs to hear that she deserves better and that people are eager to help her escape.

Even if it takes something drastic like forcing an altercation to open her eyes, then so be it.  She needs to wake up to the reality that he's bad for her and doesn't love her.  

Only people like you who truly care about her can make it happen.

Good luck.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

She is probably feeling trapped and needs out but doesn't know how to get out and is afraid.  It is a form of abuse and a form of kidnapping.  It is a scary situation and needs to be addressed.  You need to somehow get a hold of her to make sure she is alright and see if you can help.  She needs a connection to the outside and to know she has someone to help.

Answer 5

Refer her to the gentleman above, Im sure he can help.