Are you drawn to the unpredictable - or do you always play safe?

Question

And does your partner/spouse reflect those choices?

Answer 1

I always play safe, I wouldn't know how to be unpredictable.

My early childhood has a lot to do with the way I am.  I learned

to hate unpredictable, to survive and feel safe I need my life to be

predictable. Lucky for me my hubby likes it too.

This is all getting a bit profound.  I had better say we love having

fun and he rides a very fast motorbike.

  

Answer 2

My husband is very Conservative, I like the unpredictable and fun we are two opposites maybe that is why we get on so well.

Answer 3

Usually play safe, but every now and then, I jump in and go for it.

After a whole lifetime of being afraid to be on a stage, or give a speech, etc., last summer I got brave enough to try out for community theater.  I got a part, and I had the most exciting, wonderful summer!

My husband told me that if I wanted to do that, then I should.  That you never know how things would go unless you try them..

Answer 4

i'm the kind of gal that will jump in a pool with all my clothes on..tell a joke in a crowded room..go left when i shoulda gone right..i don't mind burping beer..i have always danced to a different tune..you either love me to death or can't stand the site of me..now that i'm older i'm a "little" more mature and i would give you the shirt off my back.. I love god my children and my country..but in my mind half the time i'm swinging from a pole and shootin the finger..i drive my much more mature children crazy. partner? i'm divorced 20 years..go figure..lol

Answer 5

I am so unpredictable, that I don't even know what I will do or say next ! !   I love life, and live it to the full . . .I don't want "Been There, Done That".  I say bring on the challenge, because without it we would never grow ! !  

Answer 6

I love the unpredictable.

My ideal woman would be mentally unstable, very passionate. The kind who wakes me up by firing live rounds into my pillow, and on romantic countryside walks tries to push me onto train tracks.

Answer 7

Hello,  Always jump in up to my neck, don't come up smelling of roses most of the time, leading a careful life can hide more more dangers. Wife says i should be certified bless her." jumped in when i married her 44yrs ago still smelling the roses. xx

Answer 8

Unpredictable is and has always been part of me. Playing it safe is so boring. When I married my family was shocked at who I chose for a hubby. Too bad. We have been married for almost 40 years when they said we would not last a year. My long suffering hubby still gets surprise now and then, but at least it has kept him interested.    Poppy

Answer 9

I am 73 and moved to China two years ago to teach oral english to the Chinese students.

Even I don't know what I am going to do next.

Answer 10

The unpredictable.  I like a little spice in my life and hate to be bored with the playing it safe.

Answer 11

All depends, no my spouse always played it safe except while skiing  then he would do stuff to scare me, on purpose and of course I would have to try to out do him.  A couple of ding bat show offs thats what we were.

Answer 12

We both enjoy the unpredictable.

Answer 13

I like a whole lot of sugar with a tiny bit of spice.  Most of the time, I play it safe.  I'm a home and hearth kind of gal; however, I have enough spice and as a former event coordinator with Walt Disney, I've had enough excitement to last the rest of my life.  The most fun I get now is playing crazy, loud machines in casinos and winning money. But, I'd just as soon stay at home with a good book.

Answer 14

I always play safe as my intention is to live to be 100 years of age.