Are you in favour of s*x before or after marriage?

Question

I think it would be challenging to wait, but what a wonderful gift to give your spouse.

Answer 1

It depends what you believe. If you love someone and they feel they want to keep themselves you would keep their wishes wouldn't you? To be honest if you love someone it isn't just about s*x. You have to love them enough before having s*x with them it just depends on how you feel. I feel leaving yourself for that one person is how it is meant to be and I couldn't see myself being as open to anyone else than my partner.  

Answer 2

I am in favour of before, during and after marriage

Answer 3

I'm with M. Brightside.

Answer 4

Before in case she ain't no good

Answer 5

I would not wait until after marriage, what if your spouse was really bad in bed?  I could not live with that for the rest of my life.

Answer 6

THERE ARE TO SIDES TO THIS. I THINK YOU SHOULD WAIT BUT IF YOUR PARTNER AND YOU ARE IN AGREEMENT THEN GO AHEAD. IT IS A GREAT FEALING TO WAIT.

Answer 7

s*x before marriage was excellent! Getting married has only made it even better. Don't let the issue of marriage stand in the way of you having a great s*x life with someone whether before, during, or after marriage.

Answer 8

Sexual intercourse can be enjoyable but its main purpose is procreation.  Marriage is usually the best situation in which to bring children into the world.  Therefore, to me, it seems that it would be better to wait until after marriage.  Also, there is a risk of catching sexually transmitted diseases when everyone is at it like rabbits!

Answer 9

Before and after. Gotta check out the goods first.

Answer 10

before AND afterwards!

Answer 11

I knew a man that was 30+ dating a virgin in her mid-late 20's.  She was waiting for marriage. He wasn't but she didn't know....

He will some where......

Answer 12

Before, during, and straight after.

Answer 13

Yeah but what if he has a 2 incher or 3 balls

Answer 14

well i had s*x before marriage, but i really do wished that i had waited till after gettin married, personally i think that makes a great experience to wait until ur married. its personal choice really, but nowadays unfortunately u wont see many people who r a virgin before marriage. its upto u what u want to do, if u want to wait then thats great, but dont let anyone push u into doing something u not ready, its better to wait than to lose ur virginity to any old person.

goodluck hun x

Answer 15

no after marriage you should give the gift of passion and love to the person who you are commited to spend the rest of your life with  

Answer 16

I personally didn’t wait nor did I want to. I’m not saying I went out looking for someone to have s*x with exactly, like I wasn’t planning on the precise day to lose my virginity. However, given the way it did happen, I’d have to say I wish it had a bit more meaning. But would I wait until marriage? Well being that you never know when you’ll meet your life partner, I’d have to say NO!

To those that do wait until after marriage, more power to ya! Seriously, I commend you!

Answer 17

Before. I didn'[t want to get married young and didn't want to spend my twenties a virgin.

Answer 18

all i can say is i wish i would have waited till i was married.. both of us wish that. i can't stand the thought of him sharing himself with his first..  

Answer 19

my husband of 6 months was a virgin when i married him and i wasnt (obviosuly) but i love to know he was a virign and that he waited for me and i teach him the tricks but you know what i do wish i would have waited for him as well!  

Answer 20

before without a doubt

i have been married 27 years and if it wasnt for the s*x before i could nearly be a virgin !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

only joking !

Answer 21

Before you don't know what he has in store

Answer 22

Try it before you buy it.

Answer 23

One problem with waiting till marriage is what if you and your spouse are not sexually compatible? While s*x is not the most important thing in a relationship, it is healthy to have a good s*x life and if your not compatible it could make for a lousy marriage.

Just a thought.

Answer 24

I like it before and after.

Answer 25

Before, definitely.  I also think you should live together first.  Do you know how many divorces could be avoided?  Better to realize s*x together, or living together doesn't work before marriage, than after.

Answer 26

I don't think i was ever in favor before or after - it kinda just happened. What I can say though is that anyone who is a virgin until marriage has to be a really respectable person in general.  

Answer 27

after as its in islam

ppl answer my foundation question???

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 28

before and after.  if you wait, make a lifelong commitment then realise he/she is bad in bed/not compatiable with you....what a mess!!!! if u wanna make it special then wait till you're engaged but take the car for a test drive before u declare till death do us part!!!!!

Answer 29

Tuco is in favor of s*x before and after marriage.  

That's funny!!!

Seriously.  Studies have shown that those who wait have more happiness and satisfaction in the sexual and intimate side of the marriage.

Adios.

Answer 30

After marriage....

Answer 31

Before and after.

This waiting until you're married is overrated.