Are you tired of parents who use waiting till marriage before s*x?

Question

Instead of parents doing the actual job of teaching them about s*x and being able to be fully open with them about it instead of just don't do it? Also do you think there's a reason for why abstinence doesn't work?

Answer 1

My parents told me not to have s*x before I was married, and I did it anyways, and now I understand why they said that. However, with my son (when he's old enough) I'm going to explain why he should wait, but I do believe that information is key. If they know, they will be prepared, and will be able to make the decisions that are best for them. However, as much as I want my son to wait until he's married, I also realize that the chances are slim. With the percentage of people who graduate high school as virgins being less than fifty percent, I think we as parents and the schools need to be doing SOMETHING more to educate and prevent this.

Answer 2

no. what i get sick of is the teenagers who think they know alot more about life than the parents who have all ready been down the road they are now travelling. I am tired of supporting teenage pregnancy on tax dollars. having s*x and a baby does not make you an adult as a teenager.

What doesn't work is "here's a condom, go have fun".  no wonder there are a large part of teenagers pregnant with babies they can't care for and why std is so rampant and why we have problems like aids, etc.. because kids think its ok to go sleep around with this guy or that girl because "we have protection".

Answer 3

I teach my kids about s*x and will continue to do so - I am fully open with them - I teach them the truth and answer any questions they have. I also teach them abstinence and will continue to do so. s*x is a beautiful thing and is to be enjoyed - within the boundaries of marriage!!

Answer 4

My mom died when I was a child

My grandma brought me up believing that my mom can see me.  I always had this impression of my mom watching over me, it will stop anyone of having s*x

My dad told me never to let a guy tough me

My high school s*x ed was taught

Never to have s*x without and condom

Always use spermicide

Use a form of birth control from a doctor

If you do all three, you should not get pregnant

The only 100% way of not getting pregnant is not having s*x

I think most high school students are not older enough to hand s*x, like STD's or pregnancy's

You are right parents and schools are failing in teaching how not to get pregnant

Answer 5

I think they should teach both.

It does work sometimes but usually it doesn't because hormones are very strong little boogers!!!

Answer 6

Yes I am tired of it. Parents who will tell them to wait until marriage and just leave it at that. Then there are parents who are open with their children who do a totally better job at it because they understands that their teenage daughter or son may have the desire to have s*x. Instead of using the method of don't do it because you should be married. They'll actually go into the reasons why they shouldn't be doing it, also will go over the dangers of s*x, and as well go ofter any saftey precautions if they feel they are ready for it. That is the parents we need the one's who will talk about it not the one's who don't have a clue about what's going on and leaving it at just don't do it.