Are you truly happy with the life you have, or are you just fooling yourself?

Question

looking for love, looking for dates, having affairs, doing drugs

Answer 1

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In answer to your question is this? What will happen if you are really really happy? well, you be bored soon after. Secondly, what's your true belief of word happy? How would you describe it? In my opinion it changes person to person. Because as a human being, everyone longs for things they don't have. Like love, money, status,health!!  just name it and you will find whole world running after it. So, we all think that ones you got it after whatever you wanted, but amazingly answer is big fat NO!!!!!! Why, because after that you will find something else to pursue about and the vicious circle never ends till the day you die. Unless you really understand the irony of the whole thing! or the shoot down the evil of the root.

So, in the end it's down to individual to call them self happy or unhappy in whatever life situation they are in. We all deal with life's little dilemmas as and when, either we like it or don't. No one can stop you take things in positive manner, no matter how bad they seems at the time. It's natures nature that all good things comes to the end, as well as there is always silver linings behind every dark clouds.

Answer 2

I think we fool ourselves a bit everyday in order to survive. No one person can be happy all the time. And really what does happy really entail. I don't have all that I would like in my life., but I think I am "okay" with it.  No one really does gets everything and I don't think people like to own up to that. We have to be self deceptive in order to be okay with our selves. We justify what we get and we like to say that what we end up with is what we wanted all along. I don't worry about happy, I worry about sane, healthy and self-aware. As long as I can balance my internal life with my external life I like to think I can find a certain peace. I don't fool myself about anything, there things that didn't turn out quite like I had envisioned, but I recognize this and I understand that as an adult what we want and need are not always one and the same. I still dream and hope, and believe the life I have now is not the one I will always have, but I am self-aware enough to know I am the only one responsible for it.

Answer 3

I'm happy with my life. I'm contented.

Answer 4

I am very happy--honestly. I'm on my path.

Answer 5

Yes--at 45 I have much of what I wished for when I was younger.  There's are still some things I'd like to do and achieve, though--including some I never thought of earlier in my life..  If you ask me the same question in 20 years, I'll be likely to give you a similar answer.

Answer 6

i'm very pleased with my life!

we are always looking for something to better it but that alone don't mean it's not great!

goals help us live and help us reach more that we want out of life!

but over all I'm truely happy with everything i do and don't have right now!  there is no fooling about it!

Answer 7

I don't know what "Happy" means.

Answer 8

I'm not looking for love, or dates, or affairs, and I don't do drugs.

I don't really know if happy figures into my life or not.  It just is.

Is that fooling myself?  I don't really know.

Answer 9

I am very happy .

Answer 10

I'm happy.

At 42, I've met or exceeded most of the goals i set for myself at 18.