I don't know much about autism but we have a friend whose son is 4 and she does not take him many places (zoo, birthday parties, pool, etc...) for fear that he will have a meltdown due to his autism. We invited her and her family for a bbq and also saw them for a play date and he's been great, excellent behavior and having fun. I'm just curious if children this age are NOT encouraged to attend social functions for a specific reason based on their autism? I know I have no idea what my friend goes through but in my view, I would think taking her son to functions may help him in developing better social skills? We invited her to our son's birthday (pool party then our house for cake) and she declined saying it would be too much and that since her son is on a gluten diet, it would be too difficult. I told her we would be more than accomodating with the food but she refused. I just want to understand more. Thanks!
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