Argument: Pregnant, refuses to eat, what to do?

Question

My girlfriend had an argument with me over something really small.

Now she cries all the time when i try to confort her, talk to her, and push me away.

She is pregnant and refuses to eat because it is the food i buy with my money according to her.

I dont know what to do to make her eat...

Shall i call her mother (oversea)?

Answer 1

It sounds like she is really upset with you and maybe it was something small to you but it's obvious that to her it meant a lot more. I don't know what to tell you except that pregnant women are super emotional already. Probally all she really needs and wants is for you to admit that you were wrong and that you love her so much and just want her to be happy, and then she will probally eat normal again. I think if you call her mom you are only going to make matters worse.

Answer 2

OMG THAT HELLA SAD U CARE ABOUT HER SO MUCH U ASKED ON YAHOO THAT HELLA KOOL JUST KEEP TRYING TO GET HER TO EAT DONT I REPEAT DO NOT CALL HER MOM

Answer 3

she will eat when she gets hungry enough.

she wont starve herself to death.   just being immature and stubborn to make you feel bad...and looks like shes doing a great job. leave her be and she will come around.

Answer 4

just try to keep her calm

don't make her think of it that way

try to make a fun, calm day at the beach and bring along some food that you made for her to show her that you care for her

or make a nice dinner for her of her favorites

if the problem persists, then she probably is going insane from her raging hormones, and may just need to talk to a girl friend

it can get stressful I'm sure, and that is how my aunt dealt with it. she would get mad at her husband all the time, and she would just need a break, so she would come over and hang out with me and my sister for a while just to do girl stuff

Answer 5

Awww she's having mood swings I guess... and I think(this is just my opinion) she don't like the fact that she's pregnant and not married...!? Maybe that's what's bothering her.

You said that she said it bothers her when you buy her food with YOUR MONEY!!? She probably feels bad for you cuz you ain't her husband. She feels like you don't have to do it. You may be thinking wtf! right now but from a girl's point of view bf/dad and husband/dad are 2 different things. Sorry if I am not making any sence to you but try to talk to her. If she pushes you away or get mad at you, don't contineu on arguing, I know it's hard to do but you need to step back and wait till she calms down. Ask her what her true feelings are. Tell her that she doesn't have anything to worry about cuz' you'll always be there for her as she'll always be there for you.

Answer 6

Stop worrying.  The girl will eat when she needs to.  She's probably at least snacking when your not looking.  Other than that...

She is pregnant!  Dont make her upset because anything that you might suspect could push her over the edge, will have about 10 times the effect that it might have if she wasnt pregnant.  Walk on tip-toes, dont even speak until she says you can!  And when she pushes you away, for God's sake, dont get immature, just say, ok--youre not ready to talk--I'll check on you in a little while--I love you.  Do NOT get angry at her because she's angry with you!  

Good luck!