Aries guy swears up and down that I'll marry him one day...?

Question

What do you make of this? He's been on about it for years now lol. He's a good friend of mine (and pretty cute to boot) but he's Promiscuous! Every time we talk (including this one), he tells me about the 3 different girls he's dating, the issues they have, the issues he has, and how he's after that "p*ssy" and blah blah blah. Guy tells me everything. But I've been pretty consistent in saying that I'm not dating him. That would be a stupid decision on my part. And I told him so.

In today's episode of "we're gonna get married and have beautiful children together," I told him it's never gonna happen, and this time he says "well what's so wrong with me? You won't even give me a chance! I'm really a good guy." I told him he's full of sh*t. He then says "I'll prove it to you."

I always took it as a wry, cynical joke. I didn't know he was that serious about it. Kind of awkward. What do you think? How should I handle this?

I'm a Sagittarius, by the way.

Answer 1

Yeah sounds like  bologna to me, so he will just all over sudden one day ditch his punnanie ways and settle down. I hear this from a lot of guys too. And I think they only get better at what they practice; being p***y chasers!

Answer 2

well i would say may b he is different, i kno an aries guy who told a girl that she was his future wife. hehe :p aries men love to chase... they love to chase. :]] ALOT atleast from what ive seen.... just see what he has to prove. He may b the one GOd wants for you he is just too immature to show u how much he actually likes you :]]]

Hope this helps XOXOXO GOd Bless- Snoop_bunny226

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Answer 3

i have seen this before aries love sag...so do i....but yah ur a challange and probably hella cool with him so he probably love you

Answer 4

aries and sag. are a perfect match. he is one of your 4 dream matches. he knows you two will be wonderful together. but he needs to be ready to settle down and stop dating around before you can make him into the perfect mate for you. tell him this. tell him when he is ready to NEVER SLEEP WITH ANYONE OTHER THAN YOU then he can have you but only once he is ready to make that commitment and be serious about you.

tell him he has to retire his players attire and be dedicated to you and only you if he wants you. don't be afraid to make demands as this is your life we are talking about, but on the same side, dont be afraid to try him out, you will be pleasantly surprised about how into you he can be. aries can be loyal but they need someone who can stimulate them and who will keep them from needing to sleep around. you can be that person for him, but FIRST you need to lay down the laws and let him know he can have you when he is ready.

if you don't want him like that then you are missing out for one, and for two you will regret it later. if you don't want to date him then the only way to stop him from wanting you is to never see him again. otherwise he will continue to ask you, because he will continue to truely desire you. he will be hurting himself to be friends with you and be so close but unable to have you as his wife.

the decision is up to you. either be his or tell him to get lost all together. its all or nothing. if you want him but not right now and need him to first prove he can be in a serious relationship, perhaps with someone else, then you need to put it out there. let him know the deal and be real with him. up front is best.

Answer 5

they only like the chase and hes only like this because hes your FRIEND when he gets you..be careful he will be the same person he is now..so if u like that go ahead..if not ..keep it friends..

Answer 6

Aries are to spontaneous to make a decision and stick with that decision.  Aries don't usually finish things that they start.