Arnt there any guys out there waiting till marriage?

Question

Every guy i know, had it. im waiting till marriage but im afraid ill be with isn't a virgin. and guys what if you have s*x with a virgin and blood comes out, would you still carry on?

Answer 1

I'm actually waiting until marriage myself. I'm also Christian, but like to think of myself as quite a modern Christian.

I admit I have made mistakes in the past, in my younger teen years which I do still wish I hadn't done. But I'm now 19 and have never gone all the way with anyone and hopefully it can stay that way until I hope to meet the right lady for me and get married.

I know from past experience how fooling around can be so emotionally hurtful and I definitely want to just give myself fully away to one person who I fall in love and marry and unite with, if that makes sense. Not condemning any non virgins, of course and I'm probably outnumbered but just trying to explain why I plan to save myself.

Don't worry, I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who are virgins who share similar views to you. Even if not, someone who maybe isn't a virgin may still have similar standards and values.

Answer 2

personally im waiting for marriage, i think s*x is too much talked about and i wanna share it with the woman i will share my life with forever.

Answer 3

i admit that I'm not a virgin but as for the bleeding if she didn't want to continue i would stop and i would be fine with it.  

Answer 4

If she doesn't want me to continue, then I would stop.

Answer 5

There are plenty you just need to look for them. They are the ones that try to stay away from s*x altogether.  

Answer 6

no, if you want that, find a guy in church, the guys i know that got married first married at 21 or less same with women.  

Answer 7

By age 18, more than 80% of guys and about 70% of girls have had s*x.   That's just the way it is.

Bleeding (whether from tearing a hymen or normal menstruation) wouldn't stop me... but "not now" or "please don't", or even "NO!" will stop me in my tracks: I'm not gonna stay interested unless *she's* interested.

EDIT:

What's icky about a little blood?   Sure, it's a bit messy, but a wipe with a damp cloth cleans it right up in no time.   No big deal.

Answer 8

while there's nothing wrong with virginity the bast s*x comes with experience so both partners should have had a number of affairs even if it's friends with benefits

Answer 9

had blood from periods on it, just feels tighter that way

Answer 10

arnt there any girls that dont want to be a size 2

Answer 11

I am waiting for marrage and as for the other question i wouldn' t stop b/c i know what happening the only way i would stop is if i did know why she was bleeding.

Answer 12

plenty of guys out there :) Just theyre all wierdos who no one will touch!

Nahh i jest, many guys out there are waiting til marriage, although most of these are heavily religious.

I also doubt most guys would be turned off by a bloody p***s, still feels the same =D

Answer 13

some people are really devoted to marriage before s*x espically christians so find a christain man and he will probally be a virgin. im still a virgin and if im happy with the person im with then ill do it if shes up for it otherwise ill wait, and if she bleeds i would ask her if she want sto carry on or not