Art of seduction ( the classy way) ?

Question

How does one subtly seduces a man one is interested in without coming off as S****y or cheap ?

I mean what is true seduction ? What do guys find seductive in the opposite s*x ? And ladies how do you seduce a man , the classy way ?

thanks ;-)

might need this in the future lol

Answer 1

If you want to be with this person you dont seduce them.

Seduction is for controlling someone, not going out with them.

If your interested , just show a little interest.

Then make your self available to approach.

oh by the way this belongs in the like the relationship section or something

Answer 2

Sensitive and mysterious.  Give a little, then pull away.  Not necessarily hard to get, because they know you want it, but keep them begging for more!

Answer 3

Be confident. Show genuine interest in him as a person, not as a mate. Men have a strange way of pulling back if they think you are only after one thing (whether it be a relationship, s*x, etc.).

A little air of mystery on the outset is good as well, but always be forthcoming if asked.

Also, try and include yourself in some of his interests. If he's into jazz, ask him if he'd like to go to a jazz club sometime. Make your common interests known. Then he will know that at least you have something to talk about.

Answer 4

Try to find out what his interests are, academically or athletically.  Maybe there is something that you both have in common.  Become more knowledgeable in this and/or approach him on the subject.

If you are truly interested in this person, it is worth the effort!  You will have learned something more in the process!

Nothing ventured, nothing gained!

You begin a friendship that can be built upon knowledge, rather than a temporal relationship.

Answer 5

If I were you, I'd really only listen to answers from men.

I doubt other women can really tell you what a man is thinking and how he can be seduced.  (although yes, we do think about s*x a lot)

So I'm not sure what you mean by "the classy way" but I'll give you an idea of how to get a guy interested without thinking you're S****y.

The main thing is to talk to him.

Conversation is the most reliable way to build interest that doesn't just revolve around physical attraction.  Start up convos and ask about things that interest him.  

Ask his opinion on things - men like to know a woman values his input.  

Smile at him.  

Act confident.  Confidence is s**y.  

Don't talk about anything obviously sexual.  Innuendos are ok in moderation.  Its good for him to suspect you're sexual, but its better to never make it explicit or else you risk looking S****y.  Leave it up to his imagination and you'll be doing it right.

Good luck!

Answer 6

...eye contact, a smile and friendly conversation with confidence...

...good luck...

Answer 7

I think the first thing you need to keep in mind is to DON'T Sleep with him immediately.  Let him get to know you, the person on the inside.  Make him respect you, and your decision to not sleep with him too soon.  There are many ways to seduce a man without taking your clothes off and having s*x with them.  

I think men do tend to have more respect for women who respect their bodies, and don't go around sleeping with everyone they go out with.  

It is ok to show affection, and discover each other, but don't ruin a good thing by jumping in the sack before the time is right.

Thanks for reading!

Answer 8

All seduction is knowledge that can lead to intimacy.  Any person wants things.  If they perceive that you are the person that can get them those things, they will want to be around you.  And if they believe that you can provide them all the things they want, why would they ever want to be around anyone else?

So first you need to find out what they want.  If you're lucky you can guess (a lot of seduction is based on s*x, attention, validation, and things that almost everyone wants) but you'll probably do better the more precise you are.

And keep in mind that some seductions fail because what a person may want could be impossible to get from one person, is contradictory, or is otherwise a pretty much insurmountable obstacle.  But knowing more will tell you this as well.  So it goes.