As a 30 year old male does this condition make me inadequate ? would it depress you ?

Question

im waiting for a follow up appointment with a dermatologist after the first one was abrupt and dismissive of the complaint.....told me it was nothing.

ive been checked out at the sexual health clinic months back who told me it was nothing, they couldnt find anything on the test......but to go to my doctor to maybe refer to a dermatologist.

the problem and concerns i have is regarding my p***s, when erect, its only just about 6 inches or maybe just below.

plus the head of my p***s is small, alot ive seen have a big mushroom , broad appearence........mine doesnt but is flat.

also the reason im seeing the dermatologist is because the skin covering the head of my p***s is all torn and cracked.....the surface of the skin is all cracked......it looks very unusual.

normally the head of a male p***s as a smooth baby skin appearence.

mine is all cracked, like little tears covering the head part.

the dermatologist said she didnt think it was a skin disorder, she didnt know if the cracks will eventually clear but said they might ' reduce ' in time..

meanwhile she reccommended i use simple emoliants to wash down below.

she also refered me to have pictures taken of the skin to be sent of to a specialist for more reccommendations..

i have to see the dermatologist again in a couple of weeks for the outcome of that..

im 30 years old now and im really anxious about this problem.....as a man i feel very inadequete and inferior..

i hope to god, i pray that the cracked skin will clear up in time.....the not knowing is really tormenting me.

can anyone offer me advise or hope about this ?

i have my forskin.......the condition doesnt hurt...im very sensitive down there.......i can get erections ok...

i have a forskin, but the skin is still all cracked and teared.

Answer 1

Sounds as if when you was younger that the f******n was not retracted much when you went pee or took a shower/bath. Now that you are older you probley retract it some and wash it better because you know now what to do. You just never got to develope the head of your p***s. It was sort of held back. Now I would say it is sort of like those people that would bind the feet of young girls because it made the pretty but it also hobled them. In your case it was not intended mom and dad just didn't know. We had the same thing with our middle boy(19)now. We had him circumszied(sp) a some yrs ago when he was 4 or 5. Don't thing that would be the answer today because it is for the most part done growing, however you should keep pulling the skin back and let it grow so too speak. Mostly when you get and erection for blood must fill that area and the skin should retract on its own but no reason it can not be help some. Use some oil such as bay oil to keep it moist around the head, after you pee put it away with the skin back just shack it and get all the dew of it first.

Answer 2

apply some Vegetable Glycerin

apply some Gold Bond Ultimate Lotion

apply some castor oil

apply some Vitamin E oil (highest potency willing to pay for)

Answer 3

Hi friend 6 inches is fine so forget that worry, your cracked f******n needs some good cheap moisturiser, like coconut oil, rub it into the head of your p***s as well as the f******n, always pull your skin back when having a jimmy and try to leave it pulled back as long as you can, ok if your like most blokes your most likely get aroused a bit but your have to put up with that.