As a grandparent what would you do if you thought that your daughter in law was having an affair?

Question

Two small children are involved and very loved.

Answer 1

You should take her in nice tea party and  ask her if she is well and happy .And tell her she can talk to you .

Answer 2

"You thought?" So, does that mean you are not sure? If so, butt out. Mind your own business. If you have a lot of time on your hands, get a job, or volunteer somewhere.

Answer 3

stay out of it, u butt in problems will start for everyone and you may have your son mad at u.

Answer 4

Take her aside and let her know that you think something is going on...ask her if she would like to talk about anything...

Answer 5

I think you asked this question before...........hmmm.....you seemed to be sure before,

Answer 6

Absolutely nothing. Until you have concrete evidence, you could really cause some harm.

Answer 7

Just because you have dirty thoughts, that doesn't mean that anything is really going on.  Unless you have proof that she is actually cheating, you should keep your mouth shut.  I agree with the person who told you to do volunteer work, get a part time job, get a hobby, or do something constructive with your life, instead of intruding in the lives of others in a way that can cause a lot of hurt to everybody involved.  What makes you "think" she's cheating?

Answer 8

Not your place to say anything. I'd leave it alone.  

Answer 9

I don't want to be rude...but it isn't any of your business.  I understand that you care for you grandchildren, but if you are wrong...it will change your relationship with their mother & in the end may even change it with your grandchildren.  Unless you saw it with your own eyes or have some REAL proof...it is best for all to just stay out of it.  I know, the right thing & the easy thing aren't always the same thing....good luck!

Answer 10

I'd mind my own business.

Answer 11

Although it would be a horrible scenerio if your daughter in law WAS having an affair, the marriage is between your son and her...If you don't want "issues" later in life, it maybe better to not interfere.

Speaking from experience, situations such as this, can definitely create hard-feelings between the 3 of you.

If you feel you must say something, go to your son instead.  Present your 'inner feelings' to him, and make sure there is substance behind your distrust, as it is risky accusing her of such behavior...

Beware: it could cause a worse situation for YOU, by alerting your son or daughter in law of your feelings....

I guess make sure it is worth the risk...

Good luck to you. Its a crappy situation to be in, and I wish you all the best...