What I mean is, do you ever freak out about what the kids call you and your family versus their first family? This is something I really have had to work through ( though I'm not proud to admit it ). We are trying to keep contact with our kids first family and realized that we held on to the fact that we were finally "mom". Isn't it sad that it took my kids' first mom dying to open my eyes to how silly worrying over labels is? The first time I heard first mom on here, I flipped out about it. But now, I have begun describing the kids first family as this, and it seems to make them happier too. Any one else find themselves letting go of labels?
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