As parents, do u guys ever told your children that u hated them? because they p**s u off badly? do u ever?

Question

wonder why u created them?

Answer 1

Never.  

Even when I get angry, or frustrated or feel like pulling my hair out as a parent, I love my children and would never, never tell them I hated them or that I was sorry that I was their parent.

Answer 2

no it will send a horrible message to the child/children it could mess them up in time maybe but it would be cruel to say that to them in the first place i would tell them that your upset at them depending on thier age of course and how close you are but explain to them why you are upset and they should stop or be firm and punish but dont say you hate them just sit alone until you cool off!!

Answer 3

uh, NO......I have never thank God told any of my children that.  Had two boys one works now in a prison and the other was killed at age 24 while installing a sign.

Wake up, you never know when is the last time you will see these kids you are telling you hate them.

Answer 4

No, sorry I don't mean to judge you or anything, but that's just not cool.

Answer 5

The urge has come, but I never have said it.

Answer 6

I would never, ever tell my children that I hated them.  What kind of a parent would say something so cruel?  My kids drive me insane sometimes (today was a real doozy of a day) but even during bad behavior days, I still love them.  Of course, I do.  And why would I even want to question their "creation"?

Answer 7

I could never say I hate you to a child. I can say that I hate the way they do something, but I can't say that I hate them as a person...

Answer 8

i will never say that. i do get mad, yes. but i take away privileges or ground them. they know i have short fuse. but they also know i love them very much.

Answer 9

No, after a while of telling your kids that "hate" is a bad word it definately wouldn't come out of my mouth to them.  I understand that as adults, hate is just a word that slips out and it doesn't mean that much to us but for our kids it is a horrible word to descirble how horribly you feel about someone.  I would never want my kids to feel that way.  I try to act as how I would want them to act.  But I have learned that when I get really mad things that I say just come out.  So if one day it does, I will feel horrible about it, and I would immediately apologize.  Our children are here to learn from us, and they should feel comfortable with us and loved and adored.  NOT HATED!!!

And a gun??? SERIOUSLY???  YOU ARE HORRIBLE!

Answer 10

Not that long ago I was really frustrated with being a mom. I was so upset and angry all the time. Then I got a phone call from my doctor, he told me that my son may have CF. It scared the living sh** out of me. It really woke me up, and I realized that kids are a gift from god. And that I should be thankful that I have then. Everyday is a gift with them, it isn't a right. Come to find out he's fine, however I did learn not to take anything for granted.

Answer 11

Who would do that? Yes, I get mad at my kids, but who would tell their child that they hated them, EVEN if they felt that emotion at all for just a moment?

Answer 12

Never. I love my children no matter what. If they are misbehaving and getting on my nerves, they get punished for it, I'm not going to say something like that. But no matter how irritated I may get, I will always love them. So, no, I have never told my child that I hated them. Nor have I ever thought that.

Answer 13

h**l no, no matter how mad my kids make me, I'm never that mad to say I hate them because I don't I could never ever hate my kids. They might misbehave and p**s me off but I will love my kids forever.

Answer 14

Absolutely not, how could someone say that to their children? Or, how could anyone even think that about their children? I couldn't imagine my life without my little girl.

Answer 15

NEVER EVER in a million years would I tell A child I hate them. They depend on you for love and support. They learn from you what is right and wrong in life. If you were to say something like that to a child... this poor child will grow up hating itself thinking he or she is a really horrible person sense even his or her mother even tells them she hates them. Good Lord that is the up-most worse thing you could ever say to a child. If you get angry with them you need to remove yourself from the situation until you are in a better frame of mind to deal with the problem. You defiantly need some anger control classes and some parenting classes. There is no reason no matter what the child is doing that the word HATE should ever come out of your mouth towards your child or anyone else. If you can not provide a good loving stable home for this child you need to find someone else who can that child does not deserve to hear such horrid things form the 1 person who is suppose to love them no matter what they do. You know what I have an autistic daughter that can not communicate with words but she knows feelings where in the world would she be if I told her things like that she would feel like she had no one in her life that loved or cared about her. I am sorry but this question makes me very upset and angry for the child's sake!

Answer 16

I have not ever told my children that I hate them, even if they do anger me beyond belief.  Sometimes I wonder why I had children if I knew they were going to drive me nuts sometimes, but hey it's part of the deal.  I could never imagine my life without them and the bring me such joy that it makes me forget about the hard times.

I love them both with very deeply.

Answer 17

WOW! NEVER, EVER, EVER would I tell my child that I hate them. That is horrible. Even if they made me ridiculously mad, there's no reason to tell them you hate them. My Daughter is my life and I love her more than anything in this World, nothing would EVER make me tell her that I hate her. And I never wonder why I "created" her, I KNOW why I did. Children are a blessing. Being a Mother isn't always easy, but I knew that coming into this Motherhood deal. I don't expect it to always be easy. But I will always love my Daughter. No parent should EVER say they hate their children. EVER. A child should ALWAYS feel loved.