As the school wierdo: What should i do??

Question

I am the "emo" girl. How can i make myself seem more normal to people. I have my own stye which i cant really discribe. Like graphic tees, skinny jeans, baggy black pants, tight sweaters, and colorful sweatshirts. I usually wear glod eyeshadow with brown eyelienr, black eyeliner with gray shadow, or blue eyeliner with no shadow. I have clip in hair extensions. My hair is dark brown. Dyed that color though. How can i make people know im not a freak?

Answer 1

You should be yourself.  If that means being Emo then be Emo.  School is a very hard because it's the only time in life that being an individual is considered a bad thing.  Hold your head up high and know that you are not a freak and don't worry about other people's opinion.  Later in life you'll be glad that you decided to take the road less traveled.

Answer 2

Defining yourself as emo doesn't really make yourself more normal.  I think your style of dressing is normal.  I think you should lay off some the makeup, a bit, make your hair look more natural, wear things for the right day and season (for example, you shouldn't wear black on Christmas or white on Labor day).

Most of it should be based on your personality and how you act towards people.  Don't make yourself seem so attention seeking and pull off weird stunts (like farting the alphabet or something).  But while you are doing that, still maintain to be yourself and stay true to yourself.  If you change your personality and your looks too dramatically, you might be labeled as a poser rather then an emo girl.

Answer 3

change your pants. whoa. no one wears baggy black pants anymore. Try a different style.  

Answer 4

Try talking to people to show them that your perfectly normal.

Answer 5

if your looking for a makeover then take out the extensions die your hair a lighter color and wear only mascara and cover up and stuff. no bright eyeliners and eye shadows and and just try to wear more normal clothes but still your own style if that makes sense. if your not looking for a makeover then just be really nice to everyone and talk to everyone. ask questions in class i know that sounds weird but it makes you seem really normal ya know. just talk to people and be as nice as possible :):) good luck and be yourself :) hope this helps

Answer 6

1. Stop being emo or calling yourself that don't label yourself cause others will see. make yourself unique is all and be open.

2. No balck eyeliner with gray shadow, or blue, or brown, heck no eyeliner at all. it seems distracting and weird enough, since you like colorful sweaters, or graphic tees so keep it off.

3. and as for hair do what ever you like XD.

good luck on being normal, but not to normal that your like everyone else, be interesting, its up to you on how.

Answer 7

It's great that you've got your own individual style rather than just copying everybody else and you don't sound like a freak at all there was loads of people that dressed like you at my school.

Just try to sociallise with people as much as you can and try to give the impression your open & friendly. If people get to know you better they won't judge you.

:) Hope this helps babe x

Answer 8

People come to their own conclusions about others, and it isn't always related to the way the person looks or dresses; sometimes it's the attitude that the the person portrays. Don't change your style- it's something unique to you. Instead try reaching out to people, talking more, smiling more, etc. Once they begin to get to know you, they'll realize what a cool/interesting person you are.

Answer 9

Your not a freak. I kinda dress the same way as you. Embrace it. Your not a freak, your just not a preppy hollister wearing girl [bleh] I find no interest in dressing exactly like everyone else! Everyone wears hollister and abercrombie. How boring!!!! So, be yourself and F the people who say or think your freak. Hang out with people who like you for who you are. They're out there.

P.S.

Don't listen to the people here that tell you to change even a little thing about you!!

Answer 10

seriously, appearance should NOT matter...but unofortunately, ppl are quick to judge. So shock them with your personality....if you're outgoing, use that! If not, be friendly and show that the way you dress does NOT define who you are....the way you act/interact should somehow.

Ok, did you ever see "Mean Girls?" Lilly, I think is her name, the girl that looked punk or emo?....BUT she didn't really act like it lol.

So, even though your clothing may come off as "emo" to others.....ignore them and just act like you would...

And maybe define your own style, by not leaning too much to the "emo style"

Hope this helps a little! :)

Answer 11

Dont be emo, thatll solve it

Answer 12

Stop being so needy and attention seeking

Answer 13

dress normally for once?

Answer 14

get more involved in school

and don't care what anybody thinks as long as you don't put your self in danger!!

Answer 15

Well cooldown on the make up maybe you should be more scene than emo heres some pictures of scene girls http://media.ebaumsworld.com/picture/inr...

http://i304.photobucket.com/albums/nn186...

http://i252.photobucket.com/albums/hh31/...

and heres emo girls

http://bp1.blogger.com/_9Zf_P9g6cuo/SJHV...

http://bp1.blogger.com/_9Zf_P9g6cuo/SJMz...

do you see different prefer yourself as friendly and smile

Answer 16

i think that you should be your self if they think your a freak then that's their problem and their loss

Answer 17

you dont seam like a freak to meee. I like your style. hahah, next time someone calls you emo say, no im just like rock. i like those kinda stores, like delias that arnt emo, they have alot of grafic tees and bright sweatshirts and skinny jeans and its no where near to emo.

Answer 18

dont care wat they think. if your comefortable the way you live then dont let them change that in you.  just be yourself

Answer 19

you don't seem like a freak. a lot of people at my school are like that. if they think you're a freak, then maybe they should take a closer look at themselves.

remember... those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind =)

Answer 20

The bigger question here is this; How do you feel about yourself?  If, you like the way you dress and wear your make up, then just carry on as normal.  However, if you want to "fit in" then you must make changes to your appearance that reflects the "norms" of those you are attempting to immulate.

Answer 21

hey im the same as you but im not called emo they useds to always call me nerd but look at me now actually look at my avatar now you can just be yourself and if they don't accept you then don't accept them ok that what i did now im normal you don't have to really do anything just egnore them and you will make it ok.

Answer 22

ok first die your hair back to your normal color and wear very bright colors and don't be scared to walk up to other people and start conversions with them practice at home and GOOD LUCK

Answer 23

talk to people let them know your not weird

Answer 24

talk to people so they see your not wierd

Answer 25

just be your self  i have my own style to and i have friends but loose the blue eyeliner and hair extensions