Ask him or forget it?

Question

Is it ok to ask my guy friend if he really doesn't like kisses to make sure he was telling the truth?

Because two years ago I kissed him on the cheek and he blushed beet red, his blue eyes turned black and he had a huge smile on his face. A week after that we hugged and I turned to look at him and he turned and all I could see was his lips. He was so close to my lips I could have easily touched it! I got scared and froze and after several seconds he jerked his head away moaning. THat night I felt bad and called him up and said I didn't mean to kiss him(I said that out of nervousneess and that's a lie by the way) and he said he doesn't like kisses.

When I kissed him he was leaving for something and now he's back.

So is it ok to ask him if he was serious about not liking kisses? I really do respect his boundaries I just want to make sure because I don't believe him. Not after his reaction.

we're both single and I'm 23 and he's 28.

Answer 1

why don't you tell him with a smile that you'd like to try that kiss again and see if YOU like it this time.  he may turn red again but just plunge right in before he can say 'no'.  please make sure he's not attached to someone first.  have fun!