As most of you know, my husband just started basic training, left on the 4th, arrived at the camp today (the 13th) and starts on Friday.
I feel so weak, to give a little more insight on my situation, this is how his enlistment came about.
I have known my husband for going on 9 years now, and he has been my best friend for going on 3. We didn't start dating until 2 years ago, and when we did, it was like every day we fell more and more in love. We had discussed spending the rest of our lives together on many occasions, and then, one day, Joe (My husband) Told me had had a feeling that I should pick up a pregnancy test... There it was, a huge plus sign. We were going to have a baby, and it was the most beautiful event of both of our lives.
Shortly after that, things started to get rough, he lost his job, and living in the small town we do, was having such a hard time finding another, bless his heart, he tried so hard.
So one night, he has a talk with me. He tells me he wants to join the Army, because he is sure that this is a perfect way to make sure our daughter and I are well taken care of. He's always been a man with aspirations, and dreams... And this was his, to make sure his girls were ok, and to make it that way himself. So after long thinking, between the two of us, we made a mutual agreement, that we could do this, that we were strong enough to make it through this, including deployments and events such as.
I had a month and a half with him, from the time he was swore in the first time, to the date he left me for reception. I lived every day like I wouldnt see him the next... Loving every second I had with him. We got married on July 26th, and had the sweetest little wedding ever. This wonderful man, who was making so many sacrifices in his life for our family, is now my husband, my other half.
Now that he's left, I feel like my rock is gone as well... He was what was holding me up, and now though I have my family, and my beautiful daughter inside me, I still feel so empty. I have been pondering why I agreed to this whole thing to begin with, I know because I respect his wishes, and love him and will be loyal to him for all of eternity, but that doesn't stop my thinking.
I know there will be plenty of you that tell me "Grow up, get on with life, get over it or you will never make it through." I know this is true. Believe me, I do. But that is exactly what I am having a hard time doing... I'm so scared of him being deployed, I'm scared of being a good Army wife, I'm scared of being without my husband... My love.
If basic is so bad for me, how will I ever make it?
I hope that someone has some words of advice, of encouragement. Something to help me get through this. Please. If anyone has felt this way, or relates, please share. Thank you, and please be kind,
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