Asking out this guy???? Guys HELP!!!?

Question

I been out of the dating thing for a long time I am 26 so Im not young....

I've been going to the same restaurant for a couple of months.... well this guy there a waiter it seems that I always get a table in his part were he is.... So today I was there... the way he acting this:

He smiles big.

He lights up when he see me.....

He's around me, and looking at me, he gives me eye to eye contact everytime... and smiles...

Everytime he comes back he asks if everythings ok... but he's looking just at my face and eyes??

So should I ask him out?? I don't want to be pushy... but I go there like 1 a week with my daughter and I don't know what to say..

It's HOT there ok..... like 90.. so I was wearing a tank top and jeans... so does that give him the wrong message??? Just asking that's all.. I've been out of this dating thing for 8 years and I want to go back... and all... I am 26 years old so not little school kid!

Answer 1

Yes.  Ask him out.  If you've noticed he changes around you and not the other customers/girls, that's a good sign.  

Also, it's harder for guys to ask girls out.  Trust me.  Girls can be nasty, they like to lead guys on, make them do all the work, play with their feelings, etc.    So it could be could very well be just as nervous.  

And wearing a tank top and jeans in 90 degree weather is not giving the wrong message at all.  The wrong message would be overdoing and trying to be all fancy and trying to hard.  Don't look like a slob, but just wear something normal and be yourself.  Your outfit sounded fine as is.

I say go for it, sounds like he's showing signs he thinks your cute.  A lot of guys can be turned off my girls with daugthers, but if he shows all these signs when your daugther is there, too, go for it.

Besides, if you've been out of the dating scene awhile, this will help build your confidence up.  Even if you get rejected, you won't have to keep guessing if he likes you or not.  

First dates should be fun, so just ask him if he wants to get ice cream when he gets off or something (since you said it's real hot there).  Just ask to do something like that or something else that's totally non-nerve racking.   That way you'll just be getting to know each other better without any unwanted pressure.  

Good luck, let me know how it goes.  Hope this helped!

- Mikey