At my friends house and wondering something....?

Question

ok im almost 16 and i asked my friend who is pregnant sumthen but idk if i should listen to her (not to be rude bcuz i luv her like a sis but "shes pregnant" ) but i kno my bf wants me to sleep with him but idk if i want to i kinda do but dont at the same time im so confused and i luv babies but i dont want to be like my friend who is having her babies tomorrow thats y im here for support =) but i want to ask my mom bcuz were really close but it took me 4eva to tell her that he asked me out idk y but i usually can tell her everything but i guess not when it comes to things like this please help i kno he luves me but idk if i luv him like he luvs me =? help please and thankx

Answer 1

your name says that you're pregnant though

Answer 2

If you don't feel ready, then explain that to him. If he really loves you like he says he does, then he will wait until you feel 100% comfortable.

Answer 3

Hey, I think you should talk to your mom about this. You are really lucky to have a mom that you're close to and can talk to about stuff (I never talked to mine when I was in high school).

And don't sleep with your bf just cos he wants you to...you shouldn't feel pressured into this, tell him if he really loves you he'll slow down and give you space.

Also, babies are cute and all that, but having babies is seriously a TON of work. My friend who's 24 had her first kid back in April and even though she didn't have to go to work and her husband was helping she was still super exhausted. I can't imagine how tough it would be to have a baby in high school and have to figure out going to school and homework and stuff with a baby. Please take care of yourself and don't get pregnant.

Answer 4

Judging by your name your already pregnant?

and if your not, dont. Itll make your life really hard

Answer 5

Wait until you feel more comfortable. It will make the experience itself so much more enjoyable and wonderful!!

Answer 6

That's your decision, but be fore warned. You may like babies, but that's for a few months of it's life. If you think that it'll be a cakewalk if you should get pregnant on accident, you're kidding yourself. I like babies, but I'm not about to go knock some girl up so I can look at one and say I had one. The point of s*x has been twisted to love and pleasure, but it's main point has caused teen couples troubles beyond belief in the prime of their life. You don't have to be one. s*x is not everything in a relationship. If he loves you, he can hold back trust me. But the decision is all yours, and only yours. I hope this helped, and good luck.

Answer 7

So you're not pregnant, yet your display name is 15 and preggo with twins boy/girl, but you're not pregnant... right.

According to your profile:

"hi, i am pregnant with twins. im 15 years old and please dont judge me by being pregnant at a young age i already have anough problems of my own." ♥

Answer 8

You are way too young to be thinking so much about this sweetheart. I was 23 years old when I lost my virginity and never ever regretted it even once. Wait until it feels right for you, not when he's ready. You'll find guys are ready pretty much 24/7, but there's one out there that will wait until you say the word. It'll be great then, believe me. :-)

Answer 9

If you really wanted to you could sleep with your boyfriend. But your much to young to have a baby. Use birth control, it will work.  

Answer 10

You're 16.................If you really love him and he really loves you, he'll wait until your ready.  Don't let him force you in to anything.  There are consequences for your actions, and you definately don't want to ruin your life at 16!  Your friend is going to have a baby soon and you must see how hard it is on her.  Teenage pregnancies are very difficult because most of the boys that get the girls pregnant run for the hills.  If he still wants to have s*x after you deny him, i'd tell him to jump off a cliff!

Wait until you find the right one, and when I mean the right one - I mean wait until your 18!

Answer 11

Wait until your sure that u r ready otherwise u might have some regrets later.  

Answer 12

i am 16 and preggo and believe me, s*x is over rated! wait and see if your relationship works, but if i was you i would not do it, its so not worth it, you'll be thankful in the end!

Answer 13

omg almost 16? i was 16 when i first gave it up and to the guy im still dating and love very much and i dont regret a thing. If you wanna do it please just use protection because you could get a std and having kids isnt easy hun. There cute and all but it's pain and well, you'll have a bad reputation and girls/guys will be calling you nasty names. Sorry but its just the truth..

Answer 14

True love waits. If he loves you then he'd wait until you got married.  

Answer 15

If you arent completely sure that you want to have s*x with him then dont. Tell him you want to wait until you are really sure. And I aswell am really close to my mom, we talk about everything, but somethings are just harder to talk about with your mother. Also goodluck to your friend tomorrow!!

Answer 16

If there's a little part of you saying "I don't want to"..don't. You might not regret it in the morning or next week but eventually you will. I did that at 14 and regretted it since. I wish I would have waited until I met my current boyfriend (who I now have a son with <3 ). It will make it so much better when it's with someone you completely love. You will be able to give every piece of youtself to him and really commit. I would have loved to have that opprotunity. I know what it's like at your age and I hate to say it but a lot of it is probably curiosity (deep down) and pressure from your friend.

Good luck with your choice. I hope you make the right one for yourself!

Good luck to your friend too tomorrow :)  

Answer 17

dont do it!!

it will mess up your life!!

Please wait, pregnancy is always possible!!

Answer 18

WELL UR NAME SAYS UR PREGNANT ALREADY SO R U?

IF NOT THEN U SHOULD JUS THINK OF LIFING UR LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND NOT THINK OF GETTING PREGNANT!!! AND IF U WANNA HAVE s*x WELL K UR DECISION JUS US SUM CONDOMS OR SOMETHING TO PROTECT URSELF??

Answer 19

your only 15.  Are you ready for a baby now? it doesn't sound like it.  are you on birth control?  please learn from your friend, you need to be on birth control AND use a condom to be sure.   you should only have s*x with someone you would consider to be the person you love.  Spend more time with him before you lose your virginity to someone.  

Answer 20

dont sleep with him it wouldnt be worth it

Answer 21

If you are questioning it , you are not ready. You are really too young to be thinking about all of this. Go to the mall and fun with your friends.

Answer 22

Well your name said it all.