At what age do you think is good to lose your virginity?

Question

I always thought 17-18 was good, but I know lots of girls my age that have done it. I've had a boyfriend for about a year now...

Answer 1

These days kids ages ranging from 13+ are starting to have s*x. No, that's not a good thing but I was always told that yes even though we are suppose to wait until marriage, you just need to do it when you find the right person and when you are ready to take a relationship to the next level. I had intercourse for the first time when I was 15. I almost 24 now! It sucked because I did it to keep the guy I was with. I ended up being with him for a long time and it wasn't until i accidently got pregnnt that he decided to cheat on me. I look back now and I wish I had waited a little longer and experienced with someone who cared about me. Anyways just make sure that when you do decide to do it make sure it's because it's something that YOU WANT TO DO!!  

Answer 2

I wanted to when i was 18 but i guess wasnt ready. my first time i was 21. i think 18-21 is a good age.

Answer 3

I guess it depends on the way you think.

If you've had more than one boyfriend already then it's likely that relationships are a casual thing for you therefore you'll lose your virginity at whatever age you like.

I'm 18 myself and a virgin, i do think that no s*x before marriage is a positive thing however whether that'll be what happens with me I don't know but i do know that if not, it will be as good as - i plan to lose my virginity to the person i'll marry and i just think that 18 you don't know who you're going to spend the rest of your life with [though many think they do]. Definately not before 17 years old, at that age you don't have a clue about what you want IMO.

Answer 4

when you are married.  

Answer 5

17... is good. not the best but its better than 12 13

Answer 6

when you are financially and mentally able to care for a baby.  by that time most people are mature enough to have s*x.

Answer 7

At an age when one has matured mentally. Not under the age of 18. It should be illegal. You can ask most (females) and they will tell you I wish I had waited! There are always regrets! Don't ever fall for the "But I love you" line!! All guys love you long enough to get between your legs!

Answer 8

What ever age you get married to much things and AIDS floating around. To be with someone for one night or a couple of months who you probably won't be with for the rest of your life. It is a waste of time remember you will only be a virgin once so choose wisely.  

Answer 9

No specific age, but when you are POSITIVE that you are in love with the person. I highly recommend this as I have no regrets and others do. I had my first boyfriend at 16 years old and about 8 more boyfriends before I had one who I knew for sure that I was in love with (it only took 3 weeks with him to figure that out). If you do it with your first boyfriend, you might realise later that you thought you loved him, but you didn't know what love felt like yet. Not to say if you stay with someone a long time you wont figure it out. So I lost my virginity to my first real love when I was 17 and a half and the only other person I have slept with is my fiance who I have been with for 5 years and am having our second baby : )

Answer 10

not so much the age, but the maturity. i really think that it would be much more special with someone that you were madly in love with. not someone that you barely know. i'm going to guess that you are 15-16 since you aren't 17-18. 15-16 is pretty much way too early. i mean, it's your decision, but just remember that it's a big one to make. don't do anything that you'll regret later on. and if you are going to have s*x, it sure would be nice if you didn't get pregnant. that would be one less teenage mother. make the choice that's best for you.

Answer 11

Heya

hmm well every one is different and is more mature at different ages. i lost mine at 16 and i felt totally ready and never regretted it.i would say over 16 , at 16 you can think for yourself without letting peer pressure effect your decision , your legal and you can face up to any consequences of your actions. i also dont believe in waiting til marriage because i dont believe there is only one person out their for you.

=] x*x

Answer 12

i was a month before my 18th and im 22 now nearly 23 and im still with my partner i was lucky i chose the right person, my advice to you would be to not let ANYONE pressure you into doing anything including your mate, dont do cause your mates have done,

it will happen when your ready dont make plans just let it happen naturally and you will no weather to go through with it or not! and your boyfriend will understand

Answer 13

I was 18 and thought that it was a good age.

Answer 14

When you have a stable job with medical insurance so you can support a child if you accidentally get knocked up.  (Whatever that age may be)

Answer 15

i think people are responsible enough by 25

Answer 16

Just when you think you think you found a good guy who would respect you and not go around school like "dude i TOTALLY scored with that hot chick yesterday!"

haha

just make sure he is a little mature and you like him enough

Answer 17

When you are ready to, but not early to the max.

Answer 18

At 18 you're legally an adult, I believe you should wait until you're an adult to do adult acts

Answer 19

If you are ready for any consequences that may arise from your actions then I say GO FOR IT.  

Answer 20

when you are mentally ready, and with a long term parter

Answer 21

Whenever you feel emotionally and physically ready to have s*x, you can go and start having a s*x life...

Just note that you might at least want to consider a plan, just in case a condom breaks, you miss a time of when you were suppose to take your pill, or if you were to get pregnant...

Answer 22

Age is irrelevant. Do it when you are ready, and with a man that you love.

I didn't wait until marriage. But I did lose my virginity to the man that I married. No regrets. I was 20. How many of those 17-18 year olds that you know can say that?