This is actually a serious question for once.
Well, my wife's family lives in near Denver, CO and they are pretty much stuck in a rut. Her 2 brothers don't do anything (they are 20 and 22) and her 19 year old sister is pregnant now, and her mom supports all of them. So her mom has always been and is still completely broke.
Plus, my wife's grandfather is dying, and her uncle (mom's brother) has a hole in his head from a tumor and will probably die this week.
On the other hand, my wife and I are doing pretty good here in CA. She has a great job with really nice benefits and promotion opportunities. Mine is kinda lame, but whatever. Either way, if we stay here we can really get somewhere with our lives. So the problem is is that my wife wants to be around her family to help them. But if we move to their miserable city, I have a feeling we will just be stuck crawling through life with her family.
So the question is, should we stay here and make something of ourselves, and hopefully make lots of money that can help her family? Or should we move with them and help them physically, but risk not getting anywhere in life like they are going through?
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