Attitudes toward bedwetting in older kids or teens?

Question

This is mainly aimed at anyone who has either struggled with bedwetting at an older age (10 or older) or known someone who has, but anyone can answer. How would you react if you found out that someone you knew (a friend, child, relative, etc.) still struggled with bedwetting as an older child or teen? Would your first thought be that feel that the person was lazy, or doing it for attention, or that they had a medical problem? Would you think any less of the person, think them to be immature or deficient in some way, or would it honestly not affect your opinion of the person?

If you are answering from experience (about your own bedwetting or someone else's), feel free to describe your experience as you are comfortable, just please don't share any sensitive details about others. :)

Thanks for your input!

Answer 1

I wet the bed up until age 8. For a person 10 or older, I wouldn't think they were lazy or seeking attention. Maybe they have a medical problem, but I would think they just need to remember to use the bathroom before they go to bed. But it wouldn't really affect my opinion of the person.

Answer 2

I had the same problem and finally found out i have a double kidney and other female troubles.  wish my parents would have checked earlier