Attraction: Is attraction enough to keep 2 people together a life time?

Question

When we met we just wanted to rip each others clothes off from the sceond we met. After a few dates we slept together and the earth moved for the first time in my entire life (i'm 42 and he is 43) He also says he has never had such great s*x. Tonight he is introducing me to his kids and next week his Mom Dad and Faimly. Do you think that type of chemistry is really a glue in a relationship? Has anyone had the earth move and still together?

I feel like he unrapped my soul after the first time we slept together, oppened a small part of me that I never knew I had. For the first time in my entire life I made love (not s*x) Is this what it's really like when you REALLY fall in love?

Answer 1

Chemistry is a good place to start, and you both seem to have had no trouble surrendering to your feelings, which is an important step toward a lasting love relationship.  

You felt like you were making love and not just having s*x because you connected on more than just a physical plane.  You also seem to have connected with your souls (you make each other feel and experience yourselves and the world on a higher level).  You also have a heart felt connection which leads to a deep love, and you both genuinely appear to like each other and get along as far as your thinking goes.

So, if you're truly connecting with this man -- heart, soul, mind, and body, you've got a great foundation to build your life together on.

The fact that he is ready to introduce you to his significant others reveals that he is ready to commit to this love, another important stepping stone in the road to everlasting love.

Good luck with your relationship, and enjoy!

Cindi Sansone-Braff, author of "Grant Me a Higher Love: How to Go from the Relationship from h**l to One that's Heaven Sent by Scaling The Ladder of Love."

Answer 2

i guess people fell different things when they are inlove

Answer 3

Hello sweetie, I am  40yo and I still have great s*x because it's not the big part of the relationship for me...love is. With you guys being the age that you are of course you are going to experience some "soul unwrapping" moments, but the do you love him?  The s*x will be the same, but will your heart  be as tamed? Meeting the family is a big step so, don't worry about the "glue in a relationship" your heart will tell...Good Luck.

Answer 4

Do what you feel in your heart no one knows what the future brings my dad used to say YOU R ONLY PASSING THROW MAKE THE MOST OF IT please if you r happy take it and best of look i mean it +

Answer 5

no, its not, you can fall out of lust, or hate his children.