Aunt problem on facebook??? help, please?

Question

ok, so i write on my aunts wall sometimes and write her messages sometimes, but she never replies back, she writes on my cousins wall, i don't think i did anything to upset her and i don't have her number to call her, but if she does talk to me on facebook should i say this "oh, so now u decide to talk to me after i sent u messages and wrote on your wall, why do u wanna talk to me now" or if i see her when i go back to canada(my relatives live there, i'm half-canadian, i live in california) should i say "oh, so why do u wanna talk to me now, but not on facebook" what do u guys think, and please, no rude comments, thanks

Answer 1

Start sending her e gifts, she'll love them. The banana tree will mend all woes. They don't get to see banana trees in Canada.

Answer 2

That's a good idea (ie. to say "oh, so why do u wanna talk to me now, but not on facebook"). I hate people that reply to certain people but not others for no reason.

If I were you I would write one final note to her (something aggressive too), then leave it as that. If she replies further question her WHY she's doing that (ignoring you). If she doesn't reply..well you've got a new enemy. (That's my style anyway, I'm on the aggressive side when it comes to this).

Don't be afraid. Just because she's bigger than you doesn't mean you don't have a right to be upset by her behaviour. And you should be. She cannot use a BS excuse like "I was busy" or something, because since she's replied to your cousin but not you...well that excuse can't be used there.

No don't send her stuff. If she chooses to be a "mean" person, you should not continue to be "nice" towards her.

If she (when you do somehow talk to her [ie. when you visit her in canada]) keeps using stupid excuses and/or keeps thinking she's right in everything and you're wrong, then don't call her "Aunt" anymore.

Good luck in your situation. If you want more help I would post your situation in the "Family" situation here on yahoo answers, someone there may be able to help you further (& maybe better than me).