BACHELORETTE PLANNING ISSUES\moh-maids.?

Question

i live 3 states away and am the moh for my bf's wedding.the bride said"dont worry bout it,when discussing the bachelorette party,and then said we'll have a girls night out and figure it out when it came time".i thought it was my duty,to throw my bf the coolest bachelorette party? her friend from where she lives is staying with her,i was able to discuss the "girls night out"with the maid that is staying with her via telephone.but none of the other maids.problem is,when discussing a few times about it-she said sure,it'd be great!she'd love that,i'll see what i can do from here"...and i'll try and see what plans the bride wants".ok,but not enthusiastic.next call i mentioned going to dinner,passing out gag gifts,and get cake,the shape of manhood,as a gag,and then said bride was on a diet,no cake.then we agreed to have it so its dinner/bar.havent heard Nutn andi offered $ help and made goody bags.she said she'd call around places,talk to maids.havent heard from!not helpful.im lost.what now

Answer 1

i know u mentioned that u talked to the bride and she said that a girls nite out would be fun.

Looks like she doens't want any stress either, so a girl's night out would be fun

just find a cool restaurant/bar, rserve it for whatever night, yourslef, but let the other maid know ur doing it. You don't need to get the other maid's permission though, let her know the time, and date and the place.

Then email all other maids.

Ask them ONLY about goody bags, like what to have, etc.

it looks like the other maids just like their title but not their responsibility...

don't stress urself out over this party, cuz there will be bigger parties to be stressed out about!

Again, MOH, if no one is helpin u out, and the bride wants a girls nite out, book a place, let th other maids know, ask what thing sneed to be in goody bags and ur good to go!

Hope this helps, GL with the wedding and congrats on ebing a MOH!!

Answer 2

Maybe she's not a person who gets things done, and it sounds like you are that personality.

I'd talk to the bride and see what's going on. Maybe get them both on the phone at the same time and see what you can figure out. If all else fails, have a backup plan in mind and go with that plan if you get to town and see that nothing has been done.

Answer 3

let then plan it!  Just plana  great night out when you can amke it!  You are amazing for trying so hard!