BBUK9...Im sick of people taking BULLYING ..out of context...What are your views...???

Question

If someone upsets someone in the House...

Its classed as BULLYING.....

Ive seen BULLYING first hand....and some of the BB Housemates...

Have got off lightly.......

Answer 1

I don't think Rex bullys anyone, I mean he always has a smirk on his face when he does it. I'm not sure whether Darnells behaviour to Sara could be called bullying, it seemed more ignorant than aggressive, still not right.

Answer 2

I haven't seen any bullying.

Rex just winds people up.

Darnell just talks a load of shite.

People are too quick to label.

Answer 3

I agree, bulling gets brought up far too much, 99% of the time it's not bullying. I don't even think the Jade/Shilpa thing was bullying, Jade just didn't like her.

Answer 4

The only real bully I saw in this years BB was Alex.

Answer 5

I'm p1ssed that Riggs answer to my question got pulled it was bloody funny!

Bullying, scmullying, cry wolf too many times and people won't believe it anymore, the only real bullies in the house were/are Alex and Rex!

Answer 6

All the years I worked for 'Women's Aid' , I think the  'scars'  left from Mental Cruelty are equal to the scars left from a physical bully. They just don't show like real wounds.

(BTW It's not only Riggs -I've just had an answer 'removed' for sticking -up for Rachel when someone said she wasn't entertaining - sad isn't it )

Answer 7

bullying is more when someone is being harassed, calling others names, saying or writing nasty things about them, leaving them out of activities, not talking to them, threatening them, making them feel uncomfortable or scared, taking or damaging their things, hitting or kicking them, or making them do things they don't want to do. it's so broad the list can go on and on. the things that happen to poor little kids at school who go killing themselves is called bullying.

Rex is obnoxious and arrogant and is a control freak.

darnell said something nasty but he didn't bully her.

if you think about it, bullies never have a reason for why they are bullying. they just want to overpower someone they see as a target to boost their self-esteem or status to others around them.

darnell explained why he said them things and that he was sorry for it.  

a bully just continuously purposely hurts others and puts others down to retain their capabilities to control and feel superior

Answer 8

BB get told off by Ofcom if theres any meaness in the house, altho what Rex and Darnell sed to Sara was truly degrading. I woulda bin sobbing ma heart out if that was me, but then again she does flirt a lot. But she didnt bring it on herself.

Answer 9

ahhhhhhhh well,just received yet another violation for answering one of GARTS questions,bullying you say,i wish theyd feckin hurry up,so i can put the RIGGSTER to bed once and for all,i just wish they had the guts to come forward and air there grievance,like i do,and have done with it,but i suppose it doesnt pay for us all to be alike,DOES IT?????

KIMMSTER...im not pointing the finger at anyone,to be honest i dont give a 5hit anymore,violate away whoever it may be...????????

just cant be ar5ed,no more.

Answer 10

I don't know what people expect BB to do about it, when Sara was being bullied/teased what ever you call it, they pulled her in and asked her if she was being bullied, and she said no, so what do people want ?

Answer 11

Now Alex she was a real BULLY!!!

Answer 12

it is bullying, if it goes on and on. which it is.

Answer 13

it is bullying, they are emotionally abusing the girl

you wait till tonight's show when they (hopefully) show when rex and mo give sarah 1 PACKET OF CIGARETTES WHEN THERE WAS 10 IN THE SHOPPING

it is not serious bullying but you put yourself in Sara's position

i would hate it!!

Answer 14

Definition of bully:

1.strong-arm: be bossy towards; "Her big brother always bullied her when she was young"

2. a cruel and brutal fellow

3. a hired thug

4. browbeat: discourage or frighten with threats or a domineering manner; intimidate

5.bang-up: very good; "he did a bully job"; "a neat sports car"; "had a great time at the party"; "you look simply smashing"

wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

Rex fits No.1 & No. 4

Darnell fits No.2

Answer 15

It's because of the namby pamby world we live in today where nobody will take responsibility for their actions and rather than stand up to someone and tell them to shut the f*ck up, it's easier to say they're being bullied.  Alex was just nasty and if she'd spoken to me  like she did, I'd have given her what for and she wouldn't have done it a second time.  Rex thinks he's being funny and doesn't see the difference - he needs to be told otherwise and I would have done that.  Darnell is behaving like a spoiled brat and Sara should have told him off for the way he spoke to her, or somebody else should have spoken up for her but I wouldn't say he was bullying her.

I've also seen bullying first hand.....but I haven't seen it in the BB House.  

Answer 16

Oh I know, that annoys me too.

Alex was a bully - no questions about it.

But come on, the odd name here and there from Rex and Darnell or whoever for that matter is by no means bullying. They give what they get. Everyone argues with each other now and again.

If anyone says something to Kat, it's classed as bullying but I bet you, if anyone ever called Rex a name, it wouldn't. Funny that.

And anyway, it builds character lol

Answer 17

its just big brother and channel 4 covering their rear ends after all the shite from other series.  Nothing else

Answer 18

Its a form of Bullying ,Making people look small ,and reducing them  to tears ,Its not Physical its much more painful than that ,I have been there at work with a boss