BF comments on my friend's (who he's only met online) blog?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months, we are completely serious about each other. We were better than best friends for a long time before we ever got together. I have a friend who he met on a small forum, which I was also on. A while back my brother showed him something she was written on her blog, my bf posted one comment disagreeing with what she said...not really a big deal. But now I'm finding that he's posting comments on some of her newer blogs, after he told me he doesn't read her blog.... I feel a little hurt, a little betrayed. Why is he doing this? Is he trying to make me jealous?

I know for a fact that he loves me to death, we're not even thinking of breaking up, so don't suggest it.

Answer 1

Personally I think that online cyber society has gotten way out of hand. You need to grow up & not make such a big deal out of it.He's commenting on it, not sleeping with her. You seem to have some serious trust issues.

Answer 2

just have the honesty is the best policy chat with him. tell him trust is a two way street and all that stuff he prolly just didn't realize that this would affect you in this way. we guy's are not all the bright sometimes when it comes to matters of the heart. Give him a pass and just keep the lines of communication open.

Answer 3

Honey, since you are dead set on staying with him...I might suggest that you just flat out tell him that he doesn't have to lie to you...and you are hurt because of it.  Tell him that what he was doing wasn't a big deal, till he made it one by being dishonest.  Then wipe the slate clean, and tell him that you will once again trust him....but not to lie to you again.  That's what we do when we are in love!

Answer 4

I don't really think there's anything wrong with him reading her blog and posting comments, as long as he openly admits it.

Answer 5

It really doesn't seem like a big deal as long as you don't think he's trying to flirt with her by leaving these comments.  However, if you ask him about it, and he denies it, that's a little odd and might indicate some kind of problem.  Talk to him about it.  See if he's open with you.

Answer 6

If you know he loves you, you have nothing to worry about

Answer 7

Well, he's reading her blog. So what? As long as he's not making any inappropriate comments, I don't understand what the issue is. Just tell him that you want him to be honest with you about these things.

Answer 8

   He sounds like the biggest *** hole on the planet..the type of guy who hangs around in airport bathrooms to smell others people $hit all day...

Answer 9

this isnt a big deal at all.

its normal for you to feel a little jealous.

but dont worry. he may just find what your friend has to say interesting.

Answer 10

Men are scum...if it wasn't serious, he wouldn't have to lie about it.

I don't think it's wrong of him to post comments on her blogs if he's really only in love with you, but hiding what he does is the issue.