BOY TROUBLES!.. Please Help?

Question

i have never had a boyfriend in my life and all my other mates are gettin one, i feel left out and when in conversation about boyfriends and uncomfertable.

how can i get one?

i am improvin my appearance by goin to the gym, new hair styles ect.

i really would like one but i dont know how to get one :(

no nasty comments plz.

THANKUU X

Answer 1

well i maybe im not the right guy to answer this cause im 13  but it looks like your tryin to hard i mean just like maybe talk to some guys or something ge to know them a little and just wait or maybe there r guys that like u but r to nervous to ask u out  

i would wait for the best

good luck!!

Answer 2

Going to the gym and working out will help, that's true, but I think it's mainly because, as the last person said, it sounds like you may be trying too hard.  

Don't come off as desperate because that will push guys away.  Also, don't fall into becoming a s**t just to get a guy because that will make you feel so much worse than you are now.    I was in your shoes, but with me trying to get a girlfriend.   Just be yourself, and talk to guys and get to know them without coming off that you really want a boyfriend.   Actually take the time to get to know them.  This will help you develop bonds and get closer to guys.    

Whenever I stopped trying so hard to get a girlfriend, and just focused on having fun being myself and hanging out with friends, that was when I got closer to girls and started dating.   I bet the same will work for you.