BOYFRIEND blues - pLease hElP xxxx?

Question

hey guys,

here whats bothering me.......

im going out with my boyfriend 8/9 months......getting on great lately, slightly off between the sheets, but its work overload and erm bad timing which is the cause of that, on both our parts.....

anyhow i was over in his house thursday and got on great as usual, had a good laugh together, then heard NOTHING from him all friday, which is very unusual, he is from upstate and went up home.....i rang his cell and no answer so he had a missed call- today i sent a picture message to him and still nothing, i rang and erm he was off, he was chatty but just a bit short???? that was this morning and i still havnt heard anything - he is driving back down here tonight but i wont see him because he is going to a work party which i am NOT invited to. i was on his facebook and a work colleague whos page is private has a profile picture of herself and him???

i really like him but why is he doing this???

what is happening??? what should i do??? thanks guys

Answer 1

I would ask him out right - that the communication you have been getting is that he is not interested anymore - that way - you get the truth and get to move on if he is being an ****- if not you have given him and your self the opportunity to work things through - e.g. how often you would like to see other and communicate. Good luck - trust your own feedback on this one and don't waste time and energy on someone who is not appreciating you.

Answer 2

hiya, it sounds like he is trying to break it of with you, but he is doing it slowly,so you get cheesed of with him.he is not answering your calls/texts.could be he is wanting you to finish with him,then he will not feel guilty,and then can go to the party with a clear mind.and go out with this other girl.either tall to him,ask him not to go to the party.or finish with him.then he has got what he wants.good luck.xx