Baby blues? It's been months since i found out i wasn't now I'm JEALOUS!?

Question

Okay so I thought I was pregnant and got all worked up about a baby and then got my period about 3 weeks late than schedule, and it was a very depressing time for me. Well that was July, and it's september now (well as of tomorrow it will be) and my best friend told me she was pregnant. I'm extremely jealous! My boyfriend and I already decided we aren't going to have a baby, because we're young and if I was pregnant months ago, it would have been an oopsie baby anyways.

Is it normal to be so jealous of your friend being pregnant when you weren't?

Answer 1

yes its normal. Me and my husband tried to have a baby for four months with no luck then at christmas time my cousin walks in and announces shes preggo and that it was a total accident. I was so jealous! No one knew we were trying so I didn't say anything. Thank god I conceived the next month. and am now 8 months preggo but at the time i wanted to ring her neck.

Answer 2

after i loss a baby last dec i felt that way with every single preg women i saw . at the same time my sister became preg that was awful. but i got thru it and its not easy . baby dust for you

Answer 3

yes, its normal. I mean if you were expecting a baby, and you didn't get one, and someone close to you got pregnant, you sure as H-E- double hockey sticks  be mad. But you have to know that you didn't make the same mistake as she did. You are young as I saw, and you should be glad in a way you didn't get pregnant.

Answer 4

It's perfectly normal, similar thing happened to me a few months ago.

Answer 5

Yes it's normal to be jealous when someone has something you want. But, trust me, waiting until you are older will make your life much easier. Also, get married first.

Answer 6

maybe you're jealous of the attention she's going to recieve. the baby shower, the gifts, the cute clothes. but you're not gonna be so jealous when she never gets sleep and barely has enough time in her day to shower and all her clothes are covered in barf. babies are great, and being a mom is awesome. but you don't need to be having an "oops" baby. you need financial independence, your own house, a stable partner, great health insurance... so much stuff there's no time to list it all. just wait. your time will come when it's right. enjoy being young and have a baby when you can truly appreciate the lifetime commitment and not the brief attention and feeling special.  

Answer 7

Maybe for you. I am so happy that I never got pregnant when all my friends were. I have more control over my own life not having a child. My friends always talk about wanting to do stuff but they can't because they have a child and don't have enough money to pay a babysitter.  

Answer 8

yes yes it is normal u just have to think that its not meant to be its for the best maybe u weren't ready ur time will come believe me and when it does it will be magical