When I go back to work, I am going to need someone to care for my baby daughter. My mother-in-law INSISTS that she watch her while I am away, but I would prefer that she stay in a church daycare. I like the fact that she would be around other children and the caregivers would not have other things to worry about (work, household chores, etc.). Also, I am afraid my daughter will develop a preference for my MIL. I know she is already aware that I am her mother, but it still frightens me. I don't want her to be there for her first crawl, walk, etc. and not me! Also, she does not listen to me when I tell her what kind of things I want for my daughter. For example, she insists I administer medication any time my daughter appears to be in any sort of pain, but I think I am perfectly capable of comforting my child without meds! Babies cry! They don't need medicine every time they have a little gas. Also, she allows her to sit and watch movies, which I am not okay with. I tell her how I feel, but she tells me I am being to hard on her. Am I being mean, or should I just do what makes me feel comfortable? Anyone with similar expiriences?
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