Baby daddy drama......?

Question

im havin some serious issues with my childrens father, aka my Has-Been, past tense for husband.We are in the middle of a divorce and custody battle.I know what hes been doing to gain sole custody and he is so sneaky, little does he know that everything will not go in his favor.I am determined to come out on top and him being defeated cause my kids are worth fighting for.Any advice?

Answer 1

Try not to be so bitter. You sound angry and the worst thing you can do to your enemy is be happy and move on.  

Answer 2

"I am determined to come out on top and him being defeated cause my kids are worth fighting for"....doesn't sound like you are "fighting" for the right reasons. Sounds to me like you just want to win for the sake of winning at the expense of your children. The kids come first. no questions asked. Stop playing games with your ex and using the kids as pawns on the way.  

Answer 3

i think it would be in the kids best interest if you and him have joint custody.before ever making any decision always put god first and pray about it.with god you can never go wrong

Answer 4

Sounds like you are fighting for your ego, not your kids.

Let him do whatever it is that he is doing, and focus the time and energy that your wasting on revenge, on your kids.

That'll show the better person that you claim to be.

Answer 5

good job, i hope you can sleep at night. You think by winning at something like this will make him cry at night or he'll lose sleep or u'll have a better life than him. Get real, u did him a favor, no matter who wins what or what kids. That's another thing, quit using children as a pawn to symbolize a personal advantage over someone who has shared their life with you, it's pathetic, immoral, inhumane. Focus on your kids and yourself and quit worry about who's "winning". No one is a winner, kids are the victim.

Answer 6

Get a life.  Be the bigger person and stop playing games.  You sound like a very bitter woman.  Just expose his BS sneaky ways and keep yourself honest.  Stop letting him control you.