Bachelor Party advise?

Question

Hi, My fiance is having his bachelor party tonight and i'm completely dreading it... I completely trust him I just don't trust alcohol and his dumb *** friends... is this normal for me to feel this way?? I would think so... I just wanted to make sure I'm not being ridiculous for worrying about it. I haven't said anything to him that I'm worried cause I don't want him to think that I don't trust him... but I'm just having a little anxiety about it.

Answer 1

It is a very normal feeling to dread your fiance's bachelor party.  I think most women do.  It is usually that you trust your man and not his friends, who may put him in awkward situations.  Just go with the flow and got out with girlfriends.  Let him know that you are going out for a bachelorette party.  It may just make him think about what you are doing and keep him from doing what you fear.  

Answer 2

its not like hes going out to get some strange...relax and let him have some fun get ya girls together go get drunk and get a stripper...I am more woried by women at a strip club than a man  

Answer 3

Your feelings are totally normal, and just keep your fingers crossed. As you said, it's not about him, but about the outside forces which may come into play.

My husband and I didn't have bach. parties for this very reason!

Answer 4

you don't wanna konw.... It's important women keep in the dark about what goes on..... : )  

Answer 5

Yup, that's normal, and without meeting his friends I can't tell howok or how bad this might be.  

Here's something you might try:  Tell his friends that you and a few girlfriends are going out too, so you'll drop in on the bachelor party for a few minuest and see how things are going -- that may keep the friends from getting too carried away; you might also want to mention that no one is going to want to take the b--ching that will happen if anyone leads your man where he shouldn't go.

  

Then you tell your hubby to be that you've decided to let him have his bachelor party first, so you can see how that goes, and will plan your bachelorette party to be similar and include the same activities for you that he has at his party, on the following weekend . . . make him think about not doing anything he wouldn't want you doing . . .

What you need to remember is that even if something inappropriate does happen at the bachelor party, usually it's only because a guy can't say no in front of his friends without being labeled for life!  It doesn't really have that much to do with you at all; but we all hope we've chosen the kind of guy who can say no . . . .

Answer 6

Totally normal!  Its not that you dont trust him, its that you have no reason to trust anyone else around him.  

Keep busy tonight, go out with friends, do something to keep you mind off it and by this time tomorrow it will be all over!  

Answer 7

Completely normal. Go out with some girlfriends tonight and go do something. It will keep your mind occupied!  

Answer 8

Does this have to deal with the dumb strippers.I hear you girl.I dont agree with having another woman dance on my man,but hey if we trust the guy,we shouldn't worry.As long as you know you can trust him,nothing to worry about.And dont ever blame alcohol on something happening.People know what their doing.I can be so drunk of my a$$,but I never ever forget that I am taken.