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Your Open QuestionShow me another » Back from Iraq how can I help my sister? serious answers only?I just got home from being deployed i been spending time with my family. Here is what the problem is my sister her husband is in the AF he is active duty and with his rank he is pulling in a decent income. My sister is working herself to death she isn't getting much sleep. She works different shifts and takes care of their new baby. My sister broke down to me the other night and said she had to work the long hours she does. She has to pay for child care and the bills and buy everything for their baby. I ask her where in this is your husband helping you? She told me his bills are a lot with his sports car and insurance and other bills he can't afford to give her and the baby any money. The only thing he pays for is rent and she has to pay out of pocket with that to makeup the difference. Like any decent male would i told her he gets paid extra to pay the rent it's not coming out of his own paycheck. She said she knows I ask her has he given her a dime for her his wife and that baby they have she said no he started an allotment and then stopped it but the one for rent is still going through. She told me he bought the baby one thing before he left the states.I was mad and I ask her if she talked to him over this she said yeah and he said he can't just stop paying his bills. When she has ask him when he is going to give her extra money he keeps telling her he will see whats left over after his bills are paid. Me and my family are sitting her watching my sister spend a paycheck and a half on child care and everything she makes goes on the baby i know she is getting her cable turned off here soon. we tried to offer her money but she said she cant owe anybody when she can't pay what she has now. She had tried to get help wic and a few other things she got turned down between what her and her husband makes together. She can't go apply and not put her husband on there for a few more months then maybe she can get some help then. What do you all make of all this? I need some insight on what to do here
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