Back to school questions... please be helpful!?

Question

1. so usually, i'm a very quiet girl whose VERY very outgoing around her friends, but usually don;t talk to guys in class. what should i do on the first day of school? should i just smile and say hi [even though id have to get some guts to do it] or should i just ignore them like i usually do? i'm pretty scared to do either.... this really hot guy used to flirt with me, and really talk to me like he wanted to be friends, and sit next to me in class, but i didnt really do any of these things back, and i kindu ignored him because i was underconfident, afraid to do stupid things [i ended up doing some stupid things in front of him anyway] so he moved of in the end of the year to a prettier, more popular girl. =[ frown sorry thats my love rambling of the summer.

2. what should i wear? school starts in exactly ONE week, and i have NOTHINGGG to wear! i dont even know where i can get decent yet cheap, yet Nice fitting pants--- no jeans, i'm tired of them. thanks! i have REALLLY simple yet cute tops and cute necklaces, but nothing to wear on the first day that's fancy enough, so maybe H&M? no tshirts, im sick of them too.

Answer 1

1. i know exactllyyyy how you feel.. im not too shy around girlss.. but when it comes to guys i am.. just because im not comfortable in my own skin.

but when i finished 8th grade.. iv learned that no girl will ee=ver be 100% happy with their bodies.. or their face. and if a guys interested.. it means hes not as shallow as the other guys.. so you have to open up with them.

it going to be hard, but yuo have ato try, cause if yoiu dont, ur missing out on a great expierience!

do not ignore them. smile, say hi, and start up a conversation.

ex: hi, i like ur shoes, whats the brand called?

something like that. it'll make him feel special :P

oh, and dont owrry about doing sttupid things in front of cute guys.. i do that 24/7. its really emberessing, but the guys dont seem to mind. some find it cute, and some will find it funny.. but they wont tease you about it.

2. well.. my school starts in like.. 8 days, and im not wearing hollister.. or abrocani and fitch.. im juts wearing capris, shoes and a white t-shirt. just something i feel comfortabe in.

as long as you feel good in what ur wearing.. u'll look good!

and wear a necklace or earings.

and some lipgloss or eyeliner.

goodluck!